my ex gf says she loves me i want her back, i need advice on what actions to take...

#1 (**permalink**) 07-13-2010, 09:07 PM

i love my ex and i want her back... i taxed her today and asked her does she have feelings for me... she didn't want to say at first,but then she said, "i do still love you but i felt smothered in our relationship, and i dint want that again, i want to be with you i do but i feel like it would be the same again after a while", i have changed i really have, she said she doesn't think i could change only after 2 months... how do i win her back? please i really need advice, i love her and I'm willing to do whatever it takes! should i be her Friend for a while, what should i do, or say to her..

#2 (**permalink**) 07-15-2010, 09:07 PM

work at it and see what happens.

#3 (**permalink**) 07-16-2010, 09:07 PM

Dude, take it one day at a time. Don't rush into it. If you do, that automatically tells her you haven't. Slow it down, relax, and wait patiently. Women seem to like that "patience" thing.

#4 (**permalink**) 07-20-2010, 09:07 PM

you have to prove you have changed... ask her out and if she says no then give her some space... really make an effort... you cant force her to like you I'm afraid... good luck

#5 (**permalink**) 07-23-2010, 09:07 PM

Give her some time, and try to show her that you will not "smother" her. Were you too demanding, wanting to know what she was doing and where she was 24 hours a day? If so, you have to give her some space and maybe she will eventually come back. That's all you can do.

#6 (**permalink**) 07-25-2010, 09:07 PM

What were you dong that was making her feel smothered?

Maybe you two should be friends until you figure out how to treat each other and how to communicate better.

#7 (**permalink**) 07-29-2010, 09:07 PM

if you want to b with her give her what she wants.... breathing room.. just take things slow.. day by day.. don't make any expectations and you won't be disappointed

#8 (**permalink**) 08-01-2010, 09:07 PM

Back off, stop the testing thing (very immature) and read some self-help books. You need them. You are needy and insecure and have low self-esteem. Get your head on right or you will be facing the same type of problems. Remember "If nothing changes....Nothing changes".