Any advice for a 21-year-old student who is in love with a Frenchman who is also her
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Well since he's your professor ask him how France was-ask him something about France. If he's originally from there or what not.
Bring up if he has family there perhaps a g/f. You know some friendly talk. Ask if he has pets, whether he prefers cats/dogs etc.
When you graduate from there and get your life together/on your own two feet and what not. Drop by there one day and see what happens. Best of luck.
Having a thing for your professor is an old story. My MATURE advice is - don't do it. Just because you think he's what you're looking for, does not mean that you're what he's looking for. A relationship in his workplace is not a good idea on his part.
Well a ten year age difference is alto more than a bit. However my sister married a man 10 years older and they work fine.
Never ever make an approach to your professor while you are still in college. Or at least while there is a possibility you will have him as you professor. However once that is behind you there is no reason why not.
As far as him not giving you any sign of interest. He is your professor and he dare not. A lot of professors have been in a lot of trouble over the years for taking advantage of their students.
So don't loose out hope that he may have noticed you just because of that.
What you do need to do right now....before leaving college.....is find out all about him. Is he married....could he have a girl friend already.....how could you contact him once out....those kinds of things that will tell you if he is free. Following college get in touch with him and let him know your feelings. You never know...it could be the start of the rest of your life. Sure worth a try.
