I'm sixteen and in love but need some advice?

#1 (**permalink**) 07-13-2010, 09:08 PM

I like my uncle's girlfriend's daughter and she likes me too. Her daughter was from another man and not my uncle by the way. I'm sixteen and she is thirteen. That is one problem. The other is that i don't want to cause any family problems. We like each other but don't know where to go from here. What should i do?

P.S. I found out from another person that she likes me so she doesn't know that i know.
I've flirted a little and she has responded well
Well i liked her before i found out she liked me.

#2 (**permalink**) 07-17-2010, 09:08 PM

you should talk to her... and flirt a little. see how she reacts. if she tells you how she feels, ask her what she wants to do about the situation.

#3 (**permalink**) 07-19-2010, 09:08 PM

Sounds like you're young. There'll be other special girls. Maybe avoid the headache and let this one go.

#4 (**permalink**) 07-24-2010, 09:08 PM

The question is did you really know you liked her before you found out she liked you?

If it's any way possible that knowing she liked you is what sealed the deal on how you felt towards her, then you might want to take a step back and reconsider. Like you said, the family probably doesn't want it, although genetic-wise, it's OK.

Another thing to look at is the age difference. Three years is nothing once you get to be about 21. However, she's too young to be dating you now. You're about to hit that part of your life where you're driving, going to weekend parties, and exploring new freedoms. She, on the other hand, likely has protective parents that aren't yet ready to let her out of their sight. No way are they going to let you drive her around either.

Best option is to date around, especially girls closer to your age (within one year), and if it's meant to be, you two might get together 5-10 years from now. At only 16, you've still got a lot to learn and a lot ahead of you.

#5 (**permalink**) 07-29-2010, 09:08 PM

too complicated with family and sixteen to thirteen is a HUGE age difference in maturity. why can't you get a girl your own age!?

#6 (**permalink**) 08-03-2010, 09:08 PM

Here's what you do, wait until she is 18 and you are 21. True love waits!

Dude, she's 13. It's just plain unnatural for a 16 year-old to be attracted to a 13 year-old. Your maturity levels-physically, mentally and socially are worlds apart. Besides, you really don't want to piss off her parents. They would be right and you would be wrong.

If you really "love" her, like you think you do, you would would respect the fact the her mom would want to kill your a@@ if you were to tell her you feel about her daughter.

Leave here alone and let her grow up...