love advice[repost] sorry = /?

#1 (**permalink**) 01-27-2009, 08:12 PM

don't want to take up every ones time
i know you guys hear about boy problems ever day ha ha
but i just need to know what to do

I broke up with my ex right before Christmas
he dumped me
um, he started dating another girl maybe a week after we broke up
and he kept saying he wanted me back and all this stuff
which he didn't come back, and that led to the final break up in DEC.

we are still friends
but every time i say hi to him or just see how he's doing it's like I'm annoying him
he says I'm not and that he still loves me but he's confused and wants time with her,just basically confusing

its now been almost 2 months and i basically want to know what to do
should i wait and be his friend?
leave him alone with no contact?
keep trying?

ha ha i don't know
I'm a nice girl and i'm pretty = ]
and none of his friends agree with him dumping me
he says i was a perfect girlfriend and its all him.

so what do i do?
please just don't say move on cause i know that
how? thxs
any ideas on what i should do on facebook?

or myspace?

umm. i just need coaching
and a guys opinion

you guys are amazing for helpin me = ]

#2 (**permalink**) 01-30-2009, 08:12 PM

it is time to move on...i think he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you he is done with you so he says he needs time to think or whatever...i think he is having fun seeing random women, so you might as well start looking for others yourself

#3 (**permalink**) 02-01-2009, 08:12 PM

forget him. he seems very fickle. he's not worth your time. he obviously just can't appreciate you for who you are.

#4 (**permalink**) 02-05-2009, 08:12 PM

wait until he`s ready and be there 4 him if he needs you

#5 (**permalink**) 02-08-2009, 08:12 PM

If you really feel like you are annoying him, but he is telling you he is confused....blah blah blah. He just does not want anyone else to have you, as I am sure he is not confused when he is hanging out with his new ff. Move on and try as hard as you can to ignore him as though he never existed, you both will learn a lot!

#6 (**permalink**) 02-09-2009, 08:12 PM

Hun, forget this kid. He's just waiting for a time that's convenient for him to be with you. It sounds like you obviously deserve better. Why wait? Go have fun, meet new guys...get over this fool.

#7 (**permalink**) 02-14-2009, 08:12 PM

i dint feel like reading all that sorry

but thanks for two points!

#8 (**permalink**) 02-17-2009, 08:12 PM

Sounds like you are the one that's being weird. You
don't understand that it's over. Move On!