i wnt to ask a cute girl t be my girlfriend but she is not convinced that i realy lov

#1 (**permalink**) 11-28-2008, 08:12 PM

it's a cute girl and the smartest girl in my school,i am smart too. the problem is that i am in 8Th grade and she is in the 6Th grade.i call her every day and we talk but I'm afraid that we are becoming best friend.i want her to be my girlfriend(i am not thinking of sex).just to kiss her and to have her near me.i want some advice please because i love this girl so much........she is talking with me but she is not giving so much attention to what i am telling her, she thinks that IA lung her(this is what i am thinking about). what sh old i do.and one more thing i am 15 years old,so i can't take her to hotels,bars etc. and i have this year an exam(my first one) and my parent aren't giving me time to go out and stay la it,and she stays to far away from me,so i can't visit her after school(this is after 18:05) so how can i make her be mine?(she has no Internet so i can't talc with her) pals help!!!! i love this girl very much and who can help me with good answers?

#2 (**permalink**) 11-30-2008, 08:12 PM

Give her a gift, like a flower. Write her a letter or give her a card. Tell her that you like her and ask her out!

#3 (**permalink**) 12-01-2008, 08:12 PM

your young- take it easy relax. Give it a few months..settle it out, dint worry. you ll be fine some things aren't meant to be.

#4 (**permalink**) 12-03-2008, 08:12 PM

Sorry, but at 13 and 15 you don't really know what 'love' is. You are majorly in like with her. She sounds like she isn't ready for a relationship. I would just let her know you like her very much and have no reason to lie to her. If that doesn't work, than she's really not ready and I would suggest moving on.

#5 (**permalink**) 12-05-2008, 08:12 PM

I know a lot of 13 year old girls do more than kiss, but she is really too young for that. You should be content to have her for a friend now and see what develops in a year or two.

#6 (**permalink**) 12-09-2008, 08:12 PM

Love is a splendid emotion, but I would definitely be just friends at your age.
It sounds like you just like to be around her. If you try to be too serious this will chase her away. Just try to be a friend first.

#7 (**permalink**) 12-13-2008, 08:12 PM

just approach her one time at school and try to hang out with her in a place where threes not a lot of people and just kiss her. you say you've told her that you like her but she doesn't believe you? well then convince her by showing her. if she dent like it that you kissed her apologize and say that you just couldn't help yourself because you like her so much and you wanna know if threes hope for you. but damn the fact that she's 13 bums me out Cu's you'll be going to high school soon and by the time you are a junior she'll be a freshman. but oh well maybe if there happens to be a relationship it wont last long, who knows.

#8 (**permalink**) 12-14-2008, 08:12 PM

Hmmmm Sounds like a school love.. I remember these.. so you guys go to school together. Well, being that shes only 13 and your only what 15, its a good thing your not thinking about sex! Way too early! Do whatever you want, as her to be your girlfriend, talk on the phone, as your parents to take you to the mall or have her over and watch a movie. Invite a bunch of friends and go bowling. I'm sure she already likes you a bunch if you talk on the phone a lot. You don't have to go to hotels and have sex to be dating. Just hang out. Write notes, plan dates and stuff where other people will be and take turns having other peoples parents drop you guys all off places. Good Luck and Have Fun!1

#9 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 08:12 PM

give her the shocker!

#10 (**permalink**) 12-23-2008, 08:12 PM

Dude! Just tell her.