have you ever loved somleone , break with the guy and still don't forget him ? What d

#1 (**permalink**) 11-30-2008, 10:20 PM

have you ever loved somleone , break with the guy and still don't forget him ? What do you advice me to do ?

#2 (**permalink**) 12-03-2008, 10:20 PM

Yes, my dear, i know what it's like, but i don't have any advice for you. if you get some good advice, pass it along to me.

#3 (**permalink**) 12-06-2008, 10:20 PM

if there is a chance that you can still get back together try. and if he doesn't want you or its too late then move on but not before you try to get back with him if you really do love him

#4 (**permalink**) 12-10-2008, 10:20 PM

Yes I have been there and it is the hardest thing to live with. The only way I have ever gotten over someone is to find someone else fast that turns me on but this can be hard. You have to start looking for someone else and you will forget the other guy ever existed when you find a new guy.

#5 (**permalink**) 12-13-2008, 10:20 PM

Yes. Just go out with your friends and get your mind off him. Find someone that is even better.

#6 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 10:20 PM

well well this is too normal,i mean it's the beginning of every break up so don't worry sweetie,I'll get there with time,u know I'll reach to a point that Urey gnaw ask itself why am i doing all this when i can be with him right now and spare the pain but no remind itself of why u broke up from the 1st place and be strong siesta...we're here for u

#7 (**permalink**) 12-20-2008, 10:20 PM

Yes. I think many women have had this experience. The thing to do is to accept that he is gone from your life. Get rid of stuff he gave you or things that remind you of him, try to make it so you dint think about him anymore. Delete his phone number, dint check his my space, just let go. Give up the ownership we all feel for a guy once we date him. Thats the hardest part, but once you do it it gets easier.
Also, consider praying for him. Pray for the woman that was meant for him, and pray for the man that was meant for you. God has greater things in store for you than this guy.

#8 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 10:20 PM

Kari is right, I am in the same boat right now. I deleted him from my Myspace account but I still keep writing him..He says he still loves me and thinks that we are soul-mates. I have started to see someone else that I really like. I am definitely attracted to the new guy but I still can't seem to let the ex go. I think about him day and night so I know how you feel...I think I'll take Kari's advice though... good luck sweetie

#9 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 10:20 PM

this might sound bad, but don't forget him, and especially don't forget why you split.
sometimes you have to remember the bad they've done to get over them, to see where you made a mistake. don't miss understand that please.
whenever two people split up, there is more than one side of the story and all sides of the story have a problem or and answer.

look back and see if maybe you shouldn't have started dating him to start with.
aniline your relationship with him as if it was someone Else's, someone you didn't want hurt and as if it's someone you wanted to help get out of the relationship.

we can be our own biggest help sometimes. and our own worse nightmare