My girlfriend wants a baby, I don't! What do I do? I love her more than anything, nee

Tell her that you are not quite ready for a kid and tell her the pros and cons of being pregnant and having a child. Cause it will pop right out of her head.

This is something that both of you must agree on. If one wants and the other doesn't, then you have a real problem. The child deserves two parents who really want him/her. If there are conflicting feelings about this, and you still go ahead and have a kid, it could spell misery for everyone.

Well, first let her know, you love her , then gently , open the conversation. Tell her your just not Financially ready, cause it does takes alto, to raise a Baby til their 18- or, 21 for a Girl.It's a large Responsibility.!!!!! If she refuses to hear this, then you should consider moving on to someone more Mature! GoodLuck!

To answer this effectively, it would be easier to have an age span we're talking about here. In any event, women in their 30's generally are worried about their biological clock running out, so depending on your Gd's age, there could be specific reasons she wants a child.

If she's a young girl and wants a baby because so many of her friends are having kids, or she wants to become a mom, and therefore more in control of her life or wants a baby to have 'someone her very own to love", all of these are bad reasons to have a child.

First of all, if you don't want a child and someone in your life does, you have several choices........fight about it (and trust me, you WILL FIGHT about this issue eventually), give in and have a child (because alto of girls will trap you into getting them pregnant anyway), so keep your slickers handy, or walk away. Never assume you will resolve this issue if one of you is unwilling to change their minds.

Beware of her reasons for WHY she wants a child. Is she responsibly mature and able to support a child? Are you?