My girlfriend wants a baby, I don't! What do I do? I love her more than anything, nee

Just tell her you are not ready for a baby. she should understand even if you do love her and your not ready for one than don't try to make her happy by giving her one... its totally wrong

give her baby then

y'all anti even married dint have no freak in baby!!!!!!

How old are all of u? Tell her the responsibilities. Sometimes I want one too, just to have one and it attracts at tension. But tell her the realities. How much it costs, the risks, everything.. when the kid grows up.. the college.. everything. Don't have one. Make sure she knows you love her and would do anything for her.. but having a baby needs more time to consider Adan you should be married..

How old are you? If she's at that age where she might not get another chance, u may want to consider it, or dint be with her. If she's not at that age, everyone feelings old and change. You never know how I'll feel in the future. Hope this helps.

you should be happy for your friend cause if u love her than u should accept it

How long have you been dating? If you're really serious about this girl, you're going to want to sit down and have a huge talk with her! You don't want a baby because that's your mature decision, and she's just going to have to respect that. YOU are just as much responsible for taking care of the baby as she is, and the question comes down to, if you both want a baby - are you both fiscally and physically able to take care of a baby, does she know how much work they involve?

WHY dint you want one? tell her all the reasons, may be she will understand. If its financial, or just the fact that you might have to marry her after that... good luck

If you REALLY love your girlfriend,then you will sit and talk with her.Explain your feelings as well as hearing,NOT LISTENING- to what she has to say.Maybe your just not ready yet for a family.But you must sit and talk with her and hear her side,as well,she hear and both be understanding of each others feelings.

wrap it or slap it.

only tell her the truth, if you truly dint want a baby, then dint let her force you into it.
if she is set on one, you wont change her mind either. so either:
1) give in to her and give her a baby or
2) time to move on even though you love her but you dint want a baby.

Tell her to go work at a day care center for about a week. then see if that doesn't change her mind.

You need to really think this one out. First of all, how old are you? If you're below the age of 23, don't do it. If you're in your 30's then you need to let your girlfriend go, so that she can pursue the family that she so desperately wants to have.

Do you have a college education or a job that would support a baby, wife and yourself? Would your job put food on the table, enable transportation, and enable you to have a home or apartment and clothe the family? If the answer to any of these is "NO" then you need to explain these very good reasons why a child is not the best thing for either of you right now.

Secondly, if you're not ready to have a child, even if you can afford to do all of the above, then you shouldn't have a child. No matter how much you love her, the worst thing you can do is have a child if you're not ready.

would you want to be the baby of a parent (dad or mom) who's parent didn't want them? or would you prefer to be the baby who was wanted by both?

Calculate all the costs (diapers, clothes, food, etc) and show her the total. (Guaranteed to bug her eyes out) Then take her to someone with a baby and let her feed him/her and change them. I bet after a day she will change her mind.

i think the two of you should be on the same track. if you not ready speak up and let her know your feeling.

Having a baby you don't want to have is not good no matter who your with. She wouldn't be selfish enough to insist I'm sure. she must love you lots too.

I would talk to her and say that it's not the right time for you and give her your reasons..If she really loves you, she will understand...but start wearing a condom...."accidents" can happen....good luck...good life to you