having love problems. can anyone out there help me.?

just be honest. who cares if you sound silly? sometimes that is more endearing than having some set speech you give. tell her how you feel and why. good luck!

if you love the girl, you're willing to take that risk of telling her how you feel... and oh yeah one thing.. the infatuation is always there.. you can always say it's not but it is...

It's a very hard choice to go from friendship to more. Maybe try asking her out, just the two of you, and see what happens. Maybe she feels the same way, but is shy too. All you can do is try.

Don't tell her you "love" her, that's a bit strong. Start out by planning things you guys can do together and see where it goes. Chances are if she's hanging out with you for all these months, than she may feel exactly like you. Try to take it to the next level by spending more time with her. Don't just spill out your feelings, making it awkward for both of you.

Luck only favor the braves, what else I can say.

maybe she feels the same way about u maybe u should try akin her and if she rejects u at least u tried.

maybe she already knows, girls know about these things... just ask her if she'd like to go out with you and be yourself, girls like it more when a guy is himself than when a guy pretends to be someone he isn't. it's not hot...just follow Ur heart. even though she may not feel the same way, u never lose by trying

talk to her. See if she is seeing anyone. If she isn't ask her if she would like to go to a movie with you. If the date goes good then end the evening by talking with her . If she is interested in more she will let you know.

The simplest way is to communicate your love. Have a great heart in giving her the space to communicate her feelings to you. If she loves you too - Good for you both otherwise too good for you both.

first of all dint come out and say that you love her because that will just probably freak her out. do however ask her out on a date. as far as the shy thing start talking to everyone you see. whether its to ask the time or for directions. i guarantee if you talk to everyone you see for two weeks straight you will be over you shyness. good luck and have fun.

Sweety..all in all what u need to do is just ask her out to go somewhere with u..alone that is..maybe for pizza or something..then talk to her..tell her what a cool and great friend she is and how much u adore her for all that she has done..then say i hope i find a girl like u one day to call my own..see what she says..then u will know...what u are doing is..being honest..and planting a seed of thought in her head..trust me she will ponder on what u said

Could use some more details but oh well. Do you already go out with groups of friends. Determine your friendship. Does she flirt with you? can you talk alto when you are alone with each other? are you never alone with each other? Send her a card telling her exactly what you just said here. About the being shy and making a fart of yourself not about the infatuation or sex sentence. If she is interested she will take it the next step if she is not interested she will either tell you or never acknowledge you sent her the card.

Take your time, and try to express your feelings how you feel about her, and that you don't want her for sex, or pleasure its something serious

Well I think that you should definitely tell her. Yeah, the thought of rejection is scary, but you have to move past that fear. The most important thing in any relationship, whether it is a friendship or romantic, is honesty. Just be yourself, tell her what you are feeling. And if she doesn't feel the same way, its not the end of the world. The important thing is that you told her and will now have that burden lifted from your shoulders. Hope this helps!

since you are a shy guy what you want to do is send her a letter expressing how you feel about her, tell her that you are serious about your feelings and that if she wants you both can try something out. second of all give her time to think she might need some thinking to do before she gives you a response. now if it's meant to be it will work but if it's not just don't try and give it up because you will get hurt

Its not love.
Its interest.
Interest is good.
Don't tell her you love her.
You can't be sure if it is love at this stage.
Once in awhile say things like:
'You're fun!'
'Its fun being with you.'
'I enjoy you.'
But don't add to it.
The point is to see if she picks up on it.
If she doesn't, that's a message as well.

listen do a flirt test. like talk to her real close and then keep flirting and say things a boyfriend would say in a joking way. the main thing is to keep flirting until one day she will ask " are we together?????" now for the "dint's" do not BE CLINGY, DO NOT DO EVERYTHING SHE WANTS YOU TO DO OR ELSE YOU WILL NOT FEEL LIKE A CHALLENGE TO HER... AND ESPECIALLY DO NOT CONFESS YOUR LOVE TO HER...NEVER EVER . P.S. Girls always tell you they want a nice guy but what they want is a guy who is confident and sure of himself...that is all i know and I hope i helped you.

Okay here you go. You need to think about it. Because once you go into a relationship, its rare you can go back to being the same way. She might be great as a friend, but how is she at being a girlfriend? You know how girls get too attached real quick. Some possessive. Then you will end up disliking her. That's what you need to double think. You say you don't want her for sex but if you do end up dating it will get to that. In 5 months there no such thing as love.Right now you are probably to stubborn to except it. But its true.But even after all this that I told you , you still want to pursue. Go ahead live the moment and ask her out. Stop torturing yourself. After all if you don't ask you will never know. Grow some balls.