What's the best advice anyone ever gave you about knowing when you are IN LOVE...not

Love is unconditional and it's there whether there is sex or not. Plus, the person you love will always bring out the best in you.

Could u c Ur self with him in 50 yrs ?

when you're in love - nothing else matters but that person and how that person feels. you feel absolutely calm around that person and at peace.

sleep with them for a week and i dint mean have sex if you can get through it without bum pin nasty then you are in love

Affairs of the heart are actually brain chemistry...
Don't fool yourself...
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Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that
a consistent number of chemicals are present in the
brain when people testify to feeling love.
These chemicals include; Testosterone,
Oestrogen, Dopamine, Norepinephrine,
Serotonin, Oxytocin, and Vasopressin.
More specifically, higher levels of Testosterone
and Oestrogen are present during the lustful phase
of a relationship. Dopamine, Norepinephrine,
and Serotonin are more commonly found during
the attraction phase of a relationship.
Oxytocin, and Vasopressin seemed to be more
closely linked to long term bonding and relationships
characterized by strong attachments.

I would say love is when you have those butterflies in your stomach just being around your partner, when you go to sleep thinking how cute they look asleep, when you kiss them in the morning even though they have morning breath. When you would much rather spend the night watching old movies on the couch with your partner instead of going out to a club or a bar. Lust is def. the opposite, if its all about how they look naked, or all about sex, and not emotional then its gotta be lust.

Love is something that grows over time and can be squelched quickly if both parties don't work at it. Love means accepting yourself and accepting your partner without judgment. Love is something that you can feel and know and touch and hold. Love is supporting each other and comforting each other and accepting each other with understanding. Love is knowing that just because your partner is yelling and screaming doesn't mean they don't love you, it means they have their own issue. And being able to recognize this. Lust comes and goes quickly.

sex is not love, empty words means no respect.

You must have a great friendship plus some attraction., NO friendship which really works equals disaster in marriages and relationships.

When you are in love, you can see your partners faults and you understand them. You work together to fix all the difficulties in life. You love each other so much that you can accomplish anything you both set your mind too. When you walk into a room and your eyes cant see or your ears can't hear anything but your partner. You have butterflies in your stomach every time your partner walks in the room. You can't consent rate at work until you know that that person is your marriage partner. You see nobody else but her or him. Lust is just sex an has no feelings associated with the partner which will you choose. Take care Heather