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How can you make a relationship and make sparks in the relationship. my boyfriend and I have been together for two months and the sparks have been fading. I love him and I dint want to loose him so how can I put sparks in the relationship.
honestly.. i don't think you can do something about it...if he loves you then its not going to change. i have been with my bf for 3 months and we are madly in love more more everyday..if you love him and he loves you to then everything will be fine
Do sweet stuff like love notes, and go out a lot (do fun stuff together) make him feel like you care and if you do that he wouldn't want to lose a girl like you
I don't think that you can 'make' sparks, my dear ... they 'just happen' when you 'fall in love' but they aren't meant to last very long, either. I do think that 'the sparks fading' after you've been together for only two months is generally 'a bad thing' but because you say that you 'love him' I'm guessing that even though you are not 'in love' any more, 'true love' has grown in you. The 'question is' then: Does he 'love you' back, in the same way? To answer that 'question' you need to have a 'long, serious talk' ... and only after you have the answer to that, can you 'decide' what you will do next. If he says he does 'love you' back then you can 'go on, and even start planning a 'long' future together, but if he doesn't 'love you' in the same way, then you are going to have to FACE 'breaking up with him' and 'grieving over that loss for awhile (it takes six months to a year to get to the point that you aren't 'loving him' as much, and you really should be 'alone' to do this), and then 'moving on' and going through the 'falling in love' all over again ... and the 'not being in love with but still loving him' if that happens, until you have finally found 'the one true love of your life.' And the the REAL WORK starts, because 'falling in love' is fun, and so is 'just loving someone' ... but actually living with someone, day in and day out, and seeing him fart and sit on the toilet and burp can be 'extremely trying' even for the best of us (as you will be to him, too) but if you are really with your 'one true love' then you'll just think he's 'cute' when he's at his very worst ... and you'll find that EVERYTHING he does 'for you' will help you to 'love him more' ...