Love crisis need advice ladies/gents pls?

Go for it it wont hurt maybe he wants you to make the first move because he is scared that you will turn him down

Just mail him! Be friendly and if anythings gonna happen it will. Make the first move and leave the ball in his court.

Mail him and see where the conversation goes. You never know until you try.

At no point in your question did you state how you felt about him.

How can any of us give you any kind of advice with out knowing how you feel about him?

Yes, you should e-mail him... what do you have to lose?! You don't see him much any more so if he's not interested then you don't have to face him!

But make sure you don't write in CAPITALS when you e-mail him....

;-) Sorry, that's me being cheeky.

xx Emmie

First of all, you're not in love. You may be in "lust", but you don't even know him. Secondly, if he's the type of guy who stares at pretty girls and gets jealous, stay away from him.

I think you should break the ice - ask him out for lunch one day? Go from there and then let him ask you for the next date.

one of you has to make the 1st move. So start a conversation and see where it goes.

Cassy, get off your Ares and go and talk to him. This is really not a complicated situation.......

This is a bit confusing... you are in love with him yet you haven't talked to him and vice verse? How do you know that he gets jealous when you talk to other guys?

Well since it's been going on about a year, this feels more like a stalker of sorts (with all the staring and what not) but if you are interested I suggest you mail him or something, maybe this might be the best approach since he seems extremely shy... Good luck!

well obviously he really likes you, sent him a mail break the ice and ask him to coffee and get to know the guy...Its a start

Err how can you be in love with him if neither of you have the courage to even speak 2 each other?

I honestly think you should just forget him! because if hes like that when your not actually dating him so if you id date him he would become incredibly possessive about you when you even just ask another guy what time it is!
its always flattering having another guy check you out even ask you out but this guy i would leave well alone!

You could be upfront about the situation with this guy. There's nothing better than honesty and openness. If you believe there is something between you two, then ask this guy to lunch sometime, and just talk about it. You could tell him that you're noticing him different and if there's anything he'd like to share with you..if you're interested in this person, you could let him know as well. Men like to play hard to get, but sometimes we need to be put on the spot to let our true feelings out..

To be truthful I think you need to think about your next move carefully...not every guy is a nice guy & you can get a really handsome man who can appear friendly but if he stares & appears jealous etc its not some-one to get involved with...it sounds as though he's a bit of a stalker...strange how he is 'in your space'...is it accidental he has appeared where you live.
Be careful....

i think he will make a move if he likes you and staring does not really mean he likes you, he might just like the idea of you liking him, may be he noticed that you like him and that's why he likes seeing it...but it make sou think about it, just email him and start the conversation, if he does not answer, just forget him, he does not deserve..

Mail him, if he is truly interested he will jump at the opportunity to talk to you.

Please don't use capitals, it makes it difficult to read.

first get rid of the caps, because u look like Ur on a suicide, then Jud start the conversation with him i think that wont hurt. wait do u have a boyfriend?? if not Jud go for it, it seems u like him Ur Jud scared but u liked him so Jud go 4 it!! hope that was helpful!!