i really need advice on love...?

Rajesh B · #1 (**permalink**) 06-12-2010, 01:46 PM

I'm so confused about this guy, I'm his friend but i like him a lot. and i told him but he really didn't say much about it. but threes this girl shes a hire who dates about everyone and no one is her friend. but i tried and stopped cause i hate her. and she said she likes Sean (guy i like) she added him on her my space and started talking with him i dunno Wat they talk about i think she's liennagbout me to make me look bad and flirting and making lies up about herself. and then got his # and i dunno wat to do i'm afraid she'll make him hate me or win him away

Your Randa. · #2 (**permalink**) 06-16-2010, 01:46 PM

There's no use f*King around. Just get straight to the point and let him know that if he's hearing bad stuff about you from her it's probably not true and he can decide whether he wants to believe her not. You shouldn't worry bout liking someone if they're gonna believe such things.

Marley · #3 (**permalink**) 06-20-2010, 01:46 PM

If she can do that, then you don't want him anyway. You say you are friends with him.. then he should know the truth about you.

Just ignore them both and busy yourself with your other friends, etc. You can't make him like you or stay friends with you.

miafedup · #4 (**permalink**) 06-23-2010, 01:46 PM

I would confront her about and make sure to warn the guy and if he is really your friend then he would believe you. Make sure you bring up how you feel about him and tell him that its okay if doesn't feel the same, so that way he doesn't feel awkward around you.

ciena · #5 (**permalink**) 06-25-2010, 01:46 PM

Ah...i think he doesn't like u. Dont worry my friend, there sure will be other guys waiting for u, just observe.

Just Bored · #6 (**permalink**) 06-30-2010, 01:46 PM

go ahead, sit down and talk to him! and let him know everything that is going on. tell him how you feel, tell him what you really want, and ask him how he feels and what does he thinks and want. and if he don't give you no answers, then maybe you guys should stay as friends

pepy311 · #7 (**permalink**) 07-05-2010, 01:46 PM

the reason he like that girl is because she "puts out", you don't. start to put out and guys will notice you. Dont forget to wear protection though.

sillyg · #8 (**permalink**) 07-09-2010, 01:46 PM

Just be yourself, you know like anything bad is happening, be friendly and let him be disappointed by this girl by himself.
Don't talk anything bad about her on front of him, cause this can cause that anything bad she said about you, he can confirm it.
Be patience, he will notice someday she's a bad person and finally he will notice you.

εмiιч · #9 (**permalink**) 07-12-2010, 01:46 PM

Like the Old Saying Goes, "Love Conquers all". but if you
let love consume you it will take control of you and eventually manipulate your emotions. You got an advantage - his phone
number. use it. tell him what's wrong with the other chick and
get the facts strait. Than punch that chick in the face for me.

Mrs Boob · #10 (**permalink**) 07-17-2010, 01:46 PM

well whatever u do don't fight fire with fire with that girl....whatever she says doesn't count and if he was really your friend then he wouldn't listen to her. AS for Sean all that i can say if he liked u he wold have let u know by now..sorry if i sound cruel....go out and meet some new guys..you'll be over him before u know it!!!!!

julie744527 · #11 (**permalink**) 07-19-2010, 01:46 PM

hey had the same problem one time. just call him up or talk to him alone and tell him everything. Tell him and show him Wat u r really like. This is the best way.Then go for Wat u want. Go ahead ask him. Example: Sean i need to talk to u. See the girl u have been talk in to lately is lying about me. That's not who i really am. I'm compassionate and understanding. Please Sean if u give me the chance maybe we can work this out. I really wanted to be your girl, your lover, and just to be there for you. And i was hoping you feel the same Sean.

Special ED · #12 (**permalink**) 07-24-2010, 01:46 PM

Listen...
"Labeling" others in your peer group "a whore," is not proper thinking...you don't want people hating you, or calling you a "whore," so don't do it to someone else...you might not at this moment "like" someone, but that doesn't mean you have to "hate" them...
They're people just like you!
And if you both like the same guy, then you aren't "competing" with each other, you are "sharing" similar taste in guys, so you actually have that in common...be friends, not enemies...
The struggle to find a boyfriend or girlfriend (this is for both genders) that you will find "mutual" satisfaction with...
Is not easy...
Don't just go with the "first" attraction and blind yourself to the fact there are a lot of "other" guys you "will be" attracted to in the future, or actually ARE attracted to right now...
There's plenty of love for everyone...
Understanding the "love" you have for a person, is understanding your "ability" to "let them go" and move on to what will work better for both of you...
Love is a two-way street...if it becomes a "one-way" street...
It's not "love..."
It's harmful "obsession..."