What should i do i love this man is he right for me help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Tayanee T · #1 (**permalink**) 07-30-2010, 02:08 PM

I AHVE BEEN KNOWIN THIS GUY FOR ABOUT A YEAR AND I AM INLOVE WITH HIM THE PROBLEM IS I HAVE NEVER EVEN SEEN HIM IN PERSON ALL I SAW WHERE PICS, WHENEVER HE DOESN'T CALL I GET SO MAD LIKE WE ARE MARRIED, ITS HARD FOR ME TO EXPRESS MY FEELINGS BECAUSE HE IS ALWAYS AROUND HIS FRIENDS AND I DON'T WANT THEM I OUR BUSINESS, BUT I KNOW HE LOVES ME, HE ALWAYS SAYS HE WANTS TO MARRY ME I KINDA BELIEVE HIM BUT WAHT IF HE IS CHEATIN I REALLY DON'T THINK I COULD HANDLE IT I WANT HIM ALL TO MYSELF, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Well i took yawls advice and now i have a new boyfriend that i can see and dumped the chat room relationship, me and my new boyfriend have been dating for about a week so we will see how things go with him. thanks love Adrienne

sophylakes · #2 (**permalink**) 08-04-2010, 02:08 PM

sounds like I've got a few pr obs...sorry i can't help ya, maybe MEETIN HIM IN PERSON WOULD HELP!!!!!!!

helenaloves · #3 (**permalink**) 08-07-2010, 02:08 PM

you should calm down, stop spamming "!", get a lesson in spelling, and get a new keyboard which doesn't have its cap locks key glued down. i think you should also get the book Eats, Shoots and Leaves. it will help your punctuation.

sarawrrr · #4 (**permalink**) 08-10-2010, 02:08 PM

If he loves you tell him that you guys should see each other more often and for him to show you that he is willing to get married. take Chance at love, don't miss out

Egghead · #5 (**permalink**) 08-12-2010, 02:08 PM

You are not married to this man and I do not think you ever will be. Concentrate on you make something of yourself and then you will attract so many guys you can choose who to be with. this guy does not love you so move on

toknomskim · #6 (**permalink**) 08-16-2010, 02:08 PM

u should set down and talk to him and tell him how u fill try it u will fill better. Good Luck

Rupher · #7 (**permalink**) 08-19-2010, 02:08 PM

hey gal, chill for a moment.. think about this properly, dint think so far ahead on to marriage if you ha vent even met him in person. even if he says he loves you and everything the 2 of you should spend time to get to know each other face to face! even its been for a year, dint rush things be patient because true love will always prevail. spend time together and that's when you will know for sure if hes cheating on you, just playing around or he really is the man for you.. if the both of you feel the same way you should make it a point to be together now. imagine if your married then he cheats on you wouldn't that be worse. hey, take things easy, OK. good luck to ya! hope i helped a Lil bit..

Ching · #8 (**permalink**) 08-20-2010, 02:08 PM

Dude, CAlm down. What you need to do is hang out with this guy in person for at least a few months regularly to be thinking about marriage. You haven't even met this person. You don't know what he's doing, therefore you're not a major part of his life. So go be a major part first before deciding to spend the rest of your life with this person.
Good Luck

667mom · #9 (**permalink**) 08-25-2010, 02:08 PM

You have a mental attachment to a man who you've never met in person. And this has gone on for a year... well at least he knows that HE'S IN CONTROL ! You always want what you can't have - sorry but this guy sounds married - after a year he doesn't want to meet you in person... what does that say to you? do you feel important to him? do you feel special? is he showing love and respect to you? Answer these questions honestly. Getting mad is an expression of your real emotion - you really can't except his treatment of you - follow to the next step - goodbye Cyb dating.

Cheshire Cat!~ · #10 (**permalink**) 08-29-2010, 02:08 PM

WAKE UP you cant possibly love someone you never met.what you have is a chat room relationship which doesn't mean anything in real life.so it isn't cheating its chatting and you need to turn off your computer before you lose touch with reality all together

jOlitA · #11 (**permalink**) 09-03-2010, 02:08 PM

girl don't waste time on this guy..
he isn't thinking of u

he's screwing some girl as we speak
move on with your life
no man is worth the drama