I feel one of my male friends has a crush on me, and I don't love him. Advice pls?

meh · #1 (**permalink**) 02-03-2009, 02:23 PM

P!ATD · #2 (**permalink**) 02-05-2009, 02:23 PM

A crush doesn't necessarily mean love. It just means that he likes you for more than a friend. Be nice and explain to him that you would like to just remain friends for now. Remember to be nice.

txpainthorse · #3 (**permalink**) 02-06-2009, 02:23 PM

Be honest with him. Don't lead him on, be straight forward but gentle, just get the message across to him. Make sure you let him know that you don't want things to change between you. But, if you're still in doubt whether he likes you or not just say something like, 'I've been getting these signals from you lately and I'm wondering...'- something like that. You don't want to make a complete idiot of yourself if it turns out he doesn't feel that way.
Just listen to your heart. Tell him what you are feeling.

Good Luck xxx

bananakins_xo · #4 (**permalink**) 02-08-2009, 02:23 PM

Well I guess don?t flirt with him as much( don?t be mean though) you should be upfront and tell him that you don?t fee the same for him (only if he tells you he likes you or asks you out) you should tell him because the longer you wait the more he will like you and the harder it will hurt him when he finds out you don?t feel for him like he does.

Deebo1961 · #5 (**permalink**) 02-13-2009, 02:23 PM

Be nice and diplomatic, don't just ignore him or treat him badly b/c of Ur hunch. Talk some sense into him if things advance, but...if he's a good friend, he'll understand. Good luck@

FOB55ISINLOVE · #6 (**permalink**) 02-16-2009, 02:23 PM

You could talk to your male friend and let him know that you appreciate the gesture and find out what his impression of you is just so you are not mistaken and if he does indeed like you let him know you are not interested and why and that you don't mean any hard feelings. The fact is that you know it won't work and that you would like to still be friends with him. He probably does not know you don't like but he can't read minds and neither can you so talk to him and see how he feels.