I don`t know if I am in love with this girl , can you help me to understand ?

missy p · #1 (**permalink**) 06-22-2010, 03:47 PM

well her name is MARIA ,I have no experience with a relation ship before (I`m kinda introvert person) ,on the other hand she is fun,witty,great,and one of the most extrovert person I`vie ever known ,she got so many friends.and she has past relationship ,which break up about one year ago.and from the way she talk she still has feeling for him .She `s also kinda complicated and intelligent.On the other hand i haven`t got much friend and i`vie never been in any kind of relation ship before.we have gone about 5 dates ... we had so much fun and she said she loved each and every date and also shows her diary , where her past bf proposed her the poems , the place and also other stuff.And over and over again she told me that I`m sweet and fun.And there is SMS and call each and every day .sometimes more than 5 or 7 times a day.We known each other for about 3 months and known by Internet.I already told her that are u open for propose ,she politely refused .but she is still keen to go out with me .

Babygirl000 · #2 (**permalink**) 06-27-2010, 03:47 PM

If you don't know, then you probably aren't. Give it some time....

Ilovecats · #3 (**permalink**) 06-30-2010, 03:47 PM

My dear friend Introvert and extrovert combination in a relation ship works out well..!!
and love is a gr8 feeling enjoy it..dint have doubts in Ur mind..!!
On a fine day you sit with her discuss..BFL..

Barbie girl · #4 (**permalink**) 07-01-2010, 03:47 PM

i dint understand your question. it seems as though she is definitely interested in you but perhaps thinks that it is a bit early because as you mentioned, she still has feelings for her ex boyfriend. I'm sure when she is ready, something will happen. but as for your question, i cant tell you if your in love with her or not. you seem to really like her but like i said, i cant say anything...

Steven Walker · #5 (**permalink**) 07-03-2010, 03:47 PM

If you have to ask, you just don't get it.

Jack P · #6 (**permalink**) 07-06-2010, 03:47 PM

If you can't talk to her about these things then you don't have an open, trusting relationship. You don't have love and you aren't ready for marriage.

Fallgal · #7 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 03:47 PM

It sounds like you have a wonderful relationship going but she is not quite ready to be tied down to one person. Dont push her too much or back her into a corner or she will run! Take things slowly and follow her lead. Time can turn the best friendships into a best marriage! Good Luck!