I still love my ex but he says he hates me and that he likes someone else. Please Help Me!?

ladysashya · #1 (**permalink**) 10-10-2008, 03:47 PM

Me and my ex had been go in out for 5 months and then suddenly he broke up w/ me. We were friends for a week after wards but then I sort of hit him jokingly but he took it seriously and he hates me now and my friends have asked him many times to go back out w/ me but he always says no. Is he playing hard to get or has he actually moved on HELP! I need advice.

PPL · #2 (**permalink**) 10-12-2008, 03:47 PM

this guy sounds like a grade fuck in a jackass.
it'll be hard to forget it, but it'll happen.
would you really want him back after this?

evo_550 · #3 (**permalink**) 10-16-2008, 03:47 PM

hes a jerk and you need to give up and get over him

Rickiefast · #4 (**permalink**) 10-17-2008, 03:47 PM

He's definitely moved on, and it's time for you to move on too dear. Sadly to say, but you'll find way to move on. Just wait til' you latch your eyes on other guys. Maybe make him jealous?

Katner · #5 (**permalink**) 10-19-2008, 03:47 PM

Move on with your life you will feel much better! You will also find much better! You are better than this. I bet if you ignore him he will come crawling back and when he does you know better enough to ignore him.

A Z · #6 (**permalink**) 10-23-2008, 03:47 PM

sounds like he's moved on, Hun! You should forget about him and move on to. There so many other guys out there.

Annabelle · #7 (**permalink**) 10-27-2008, 03:47 PM

Probably not the effort of getting back. Just go get another guy.

bobo · #8 (**permalink**) 10-30-2008, 03:47 PM

Move on. It may really hurt to hear it but you're better off starting new. If he still has feelings for you seeing you move on may bring the spark back.

portableb_2522 · #9 (**permalink**) 11-03-2008, 02:47 PM

Doesn't sound like a good guy.... move on.

Mr D · #10 (**permalink**) 11-08-2008, 02:47 PM

I don't know, when the friends are involved, it gets all messy and vague, don't you think?

uranus2mars · #11 (**permalink**) 11-12-2008, 02:47 PM

he do sent sound like a real man.i know its hard to forget him. well, just put things in the pass and move on in your life. u are probably going to find someone better than him.

con118 · #12 (**permalink**) 11-15-2008, 02:47 PM

Nope, that's not playing hard to get. Move on, you can find someone amazing who really does want to spend his time with you.

Bumbie · #13 (**permalink**) 11-19-2008, 02:47 PM

Time to move on. You are mostly, at this point, feeling more rejection than loss. He made up his mind a long time ago, came back 'cause he was curious and took your love tap as his excuse to leave and still look like the good guy, in his mind.
Lots and lots of guys out there to fill his place...

Mack · #14 (**permalink**) 11-21-2008, 02:47 PM

Honestly, he's not the one for you... if you hit someone jokingly, he's not supposed to get mad. Sorry to say but if he got mad for no reason, maybe he was just finding a way to gain some distance between the two of you. And maybe you should take advantage of this. Take time away from him to heal and recover.

Confused one · #15 (**permalink**) 11-22-2008, 02:47 PM

Well, that sounds kind of like one of my exes. So I think I can try to help you. You're just going to have to get over him. Don't fall into little games with him. It'll take a while, but eventually you will get over him. Date other guys, just have fun. Love is for the experienced, and since you're not over him, it means you aren't that experienced (neither am I) so just, like I said, date other guys and have fun. =) it's a lot easier than going through all the pain of trying to get him to go back out with you.

magley 63.5 · #16 (**permalink**) 11-26-2008, 02:47 PM

It will be hard but move on. Please stop boosting his ego by having your friends beg for you. It makes you look pathetic. Even if you feel that way don't let him see it. Accept that it is over. You will be fine eventually. Probably sooner than u think. You will look back and see how much better of you are. I've been there. Trust me I know

Pink · #17 (**permalink**) 11-27-2008, 02:47 PM

2 TELL U THA TRUTH i THINK HE IZ PROBABLY PLAYIN' HARD 2 GET. if HE IZ THEN i SUGGEST THAT U START GOIN' OUT W/ SUM-1 ELSE 2 MAKE HIM JEAULOS AND MAY-B IT WILL HELP U GET OVER HIM BUT i KNOW ITZ GONNA B HARD 4 U 2 FORGET BOU'T HIM CUZ THAT HAPPENED 2 ME 2!

Dreamer ツ · #18 (**permalink**) 11-30-2008, 02:47 PM

I think you should get over him. It's not going to be easy, but you are opening yourself to being hurt even more if he does anything else to you in the future.

There are lots of other people out there. Someone should be able to make you happy. You need to make the best decision for you and only you. There must be a reason he broke up with you. Valid reason or not, he did it, and I think if he wanted to have you back as his girlfriend, is that the type of person you truly want to be with?

Additionally, I don't think your friends are helping your situation, because sometimes when people nag to guys (like your friends are doing to him), some guys have a tendency to go the other way (not date you again).

Jak D · #19 (**permalink**) 12-04-2008, 02:47 PM

move on. he isn't interested.

Marilyn · #20 (**permalink**) 12-07-2008, 02:47 PM

Listen... He is definitely not playing hard to get, although it is something that you would want to hear. He suddenly broke up with you... well that could be for many reasons.

To everyone on here, you should get totally pissed at the man... lets think about this for a minute.

Im guessing you are in high school...? Lemme know if Im wrong here. Boys and girls date a lot in high school.... Or not at all but that is besides the point.

Im thinking he was mad at you for hitting him, he was mad because you we rent getting the hint. It is time to move on. Obviously he is a typical young male, thinking with not just his brain if you know what I mean. You dated for five months and your terribly in love with him... and you aren't really getting the point... I would hope you have not had sex with the male. If so then things are more complicated.

In any event, time to move on, and focus on whats really important here, and that's you.

If you have any more questions feel free to IM me on Yahoo IM ingeniously_artistic

J

Don't Have your friends beg for you. It is time to move on. Having your friends beg only make you look desperate. You want to show him you don't Need him... Dont even talk to him... to be honest maybe in a few months he will realize what he lost and come back to you, in that event it is your choice, My opinion tell him he lost a good thing and leave him beggin you.