which is Worst2bWASTED: a Painful SACRIFICE, a Confessed LOVE, a Beautiful ADVICE, a Golden OPPORTUNITY?

All the above

a golden opportunity. It has so many possibilities

great question BTW

Which is worst to be wasted? Hmmmm.

A painful sacrifice if will at least put a smile on a face and foulness in a heart.

A Confessed Love if it will open the bright living essence in a heart's cage.

A Beautiful Advice if it will move the brain(or more the heart) to a determination towards the better of ones life.(More like someone(Else's) life).

And A Golden Opportunity if it will reunite the ways of this world even if it is by simply fulfilling a broken dream.

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STARGIRL(CAMEO)

They are all the same. A confessed love against the guidance of beautiful advise may drive away a golden opportunity. Nothing can be wasted as there is nothing to save. You add value to these notions because you were taught to.

1) a painful sacrifice - as long as you LOVE someone, you don't mind doing it again, so it's not so wasted

2) a confessed love - OUCH. One would be terribly sad if this were wasted.

3) beautiful advice - actually the pain lies on pitying who you gave the advice to. If it's not someone close, then it might not be so wasted after all. Besides, you can give this same advice to others who will appreciate it.

4) golden opportunity - this depends on the magnitude and type of opportunity: love? career? etc. So there's a little ambiguity here.

So, I would think that a confessed love is worst to be wasted.

I have wasted many golden opportunities. I don't care. I have no regrets. As Frank Sinatra wisely said, "When you're at the top, you get to make big decisions. You get big rewards, and you make big mistakes." And so I have.

I have no experience in wasting a "confessed love," so I leave that to those who have. It sounds sad, but again I quote: "'Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all," or so the poet says.

I have wasted good advice, mercilessly. That is a pity. It speaks to my hubris, and I am ashamed of it, yet I take responsibility for ignoring the advice, having made my choices, and I forgive myself and move on.

BUT, I MOURN and I GRIEVE SACRIFICE wasted and the love and "pain" and time and care put into those sacrifices--time and love of such depth and passion, never to be regained, never to be valued; no, never to have been useful!

And why is this my greatest of the sorrows you mention? Because I cannot bear that the persons for whom I made my sacrifices, whom I so adore and adored, were/are not peaceful, happy, loving of themselves. That is my grief. The waste is exactly that, not my sacrifice, itself, but that it didn't work; that is, my love cannot save another human being, no matter the sacrifice, the depth of that sacrificial love.

It is pure torture.

My love, itself, was wasted, tossed to the ground, heaped into a dumpster, made no beauty, meaning, peace, in the lives of my loved ones--not all my loved ones, of course, but the three of whom I'm writing, three people in such pain and sorrow, whom I so feelingly tried and tried to save with all the flesh of my flesh, bone of my bone, blood of my blood, love of my heart. Lost, gone. The "Worst."

These beautiful beings are/were lost souls, and I failed them for all my effort and care and "sacrifice." (I put that in quotes, because, to me, when sacrifice is made for love, it is not pain, but the waste of it surely is.) I failed them. And a threnody is my song, for who am I?

If the love of those who died to save us, could not save us, who am I? And a voice cries out echoing in the tunnels of my being, "You are an arrogant fool."

a Golden Opportunity.
a painful sacrifice, a confessed love, a beautiful advice are all from outward forces or by other people in waiting for you response.
a golden opportunity is entirely on you.
you have the power to take it & make it work
and you dint have anybody else to blame it you mess up or miss it.
everything you mentioned are unfortunate to be taken for granted, but a golden opportunity is the rarest, it can be once in a lifetime. besides if a you dint feel mutuality with the confessed love, it's never wasted at all. you're just being true to yourself.

cheers!

Wasted--beautiful advice. Sacrifice is spent, not wasted. Love is transient. Opportunities "can" be through beautiful advice! (Listen.)

A painful sacrifice perhaps - though if anything is worth sacrificing for the sacrifice is never wasted. A confessed love "wasted" still leaves its memory - and avoids potentially greater pain. Advice is never wasted, used or not. It helps us make up our own mind. And Golden Opportunities abound - we waste them all the time . The ones we did not see don't matter - they're behind us, but recognizing them in hindsight can equip us to see another. And the same goes for the ones we see but don't pick up. So nothing is wasted, if we reflect upon it and learn.

A confessed love can be regained when you wasted the first.

A beautiful advice can be recalled if you still remember it.

Opportunities come and go; it's a matter of time when the next one rolls along.

But a painful sacrifice can only be offered once.

Definitely a golden opportunity !!
A painful sacrifice or a confessed love may not be the 'true' sacrifice or love that you need.wasted beautiful advise could still be forthcoming if you have not follow them at the first time or it could come from other wise men!
You will never know if a missed golden opportunity will come along again (not unless u can see your own fate!)

Golden Opportunity: Should never be wasted you have to take that Golden Opportunity to live a better life like for exp, I got a scholarship to go to College....do I give up and not finish or work hard because my grades were excellent in HighSchool..I was going to quit in my second year scholarship or no scholarship..but my stepfather gave me hope..this was a Golden Opportunity that I had to see through for my life..

I guess a Confessed Love.. would be second.........I think its better to let another know.....but if never known nothing ventured than nothing gained................It is wasted and time lost that can never come back......Very sad if the person does not feel the same..........


Sacrifices are never wasted there is goodness in sacrifices...

Beautiful advice is something that can be given again through life..............it is never wasted.....

I'm sorry to get other choice Enki ..

great question ..

Time

is the worst to be wasted ..

in your choices ..
sure it would be painful sacrifice.. : cause it will bring you just the pain full feelings for nothing .. as it wasted away from it's porpoise .. ..

Confessed love is not much worse .. cause if you really love someone and confessed that feelings to that person .. you just want him/ her to be happy .. you love .. then you care about the other more than you care about yourself .. so confessed love never could be wasted ..

A beautifully advice ?? .. not worse always .. cause you can always take it and work it .. even if the time passed .. you learned from it ..

a Golden opportunity ?? .. some times it is bad.. but it will be only worst thing .. if you just keep remembering it and regretting it .. there is always alto of opportunities in front of you .. as you still living ..

so my choice definitely would be the painful sacrifice .. cause there is no way back for it .. and it is doubled pain .. ( pains and sacrifices ) ..

yet wasting time is the worst thing .. and the best friend of wasting time is regret ..

have a great day ..
good luck ..

thanks for smart inspiring question ..
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A beautiful advice. Wasting of it might inhibit the reason
for future advice. Why should the ad visor put the effort
in if the advice is not considered. Therefore, advice
should be evaluated for the same considerations that
make prioritization relevant for the other choices.
Most people lead very busy lives and that peoples'
lives should intersect and advise is the golden
opportunity. Furthermore, considering that when
an individuals inner mechanisms are in alignment
the individual will be resilient to all the other choices
unless the instance comes from an external force,
and advice, being external, might resolve the issue.

I'm a hopeful romantic, so gotta go with a confessed Love