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Old 12-18-2008, 07:56 PM
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I was with this guy for two years. He was my first love and first everything else. It has been six months, and i still feel llike i cant date anyone else. He has moved on, and it tears me up inside. we haent talked for that whole time. i still love and miss him. HELP??

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Old 12-19-2008, 05:12 AM
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Get rid of everything that reminds you of him. Go out with your friends and get your mind of him. Be independent! You don't need him. And be careful not to go on rebound. With your heart still hooked on him, you're most suceptible to pain again. Let time take it's course.
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Old 12-19-2008, 05:21 PM
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you have grown attached to this guy. this usually happens when the guy is your first. i say you have to move on. dont force yourself to date other people, but it will come with time. take as long as you need but make sure you're not letting this guy control your life (in a way that youre thinking about him and not able to move on) take some girls nights out, and just have fun. its over. he's movied on try and do the same
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Old 12-19-2008, 07:04 PM
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tell him how you feel
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Old 12-20-2008, 08:32 PM
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Your first"everything"is very hard to let go of. I know that for a fact. Due to my own insecurities I almost lost my only real love. All you can do is back off and try to move on slowly. Buy some new springs clothes, go out with friends to clubs and have a good time. No matter what, you have to see it as that old fashioned saying"if its meant to be, it will be"good luck
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Old 12-21-2008, 04:54 PM
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whatever, do you know how many more guys in your life will make you feel this way. you better learn to accept this fact of life...
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Old 12-21-2008, 07:59 PM
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His loss...People just don't place a value on the human being anymore...find someone who values you.
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Old 12-23-2008, 10:16 PM
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You need to let go of the past and move on to the future.You are holding on to dreams that you loved....not a person. Make a effort to meet new people.
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Old 12-25-2008, 11:12 AM
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he must of ment alot to ubut it takes everyone a different amount of time to get past a relationshipjust keep going, meet new ppl, have fun and eventually u will be able to move ongood luck
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Old 12-28-2008, 01:51 AM
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Get over it
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Old 12-29-2008, 01:27 AM
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i was in this same situation the best thing i did for myself was to move on. i know it is hard and i can not say you will forget about him or even stop loving him but it helps with the pain. i am now married and have a son, i miss my ex sometimes and i know in my heart i will always love him but by moving on i am no longer in love with him and i am very happy in my new marriage
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Old 01-02-2009, 01:42 PM
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Trust me when I say that the more you hang on to what could have been the more pain your heart has to take. You don't want to see yourself with anybody else because you don't believe that you can do better. Trust me you can do much better. If down the line he's still crazy about you he'll come. For now just live your life.
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Old 01-04-2009, 01:03 AM
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if he broke up with you it must mean that there is something about you that he doesnt like and it takes to lovers to date so i suggest you move on and try to find someone else
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Old 01-06-2009, 08:54 PM
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Unfortunately, it can take up to half the amount of time you were together to get over a realationship. It could potentially take you a year.Use this time to reaffirm who you are with yourself. Become stronger in school, work, family, etc.
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Old 01-08-2009, 03:04 PM
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Time is your best friend. It is okay to miss him. Allow yourself to do that. May I suggest tweaking how just a little bit? Schedule your missing him. Do it at the same time every day. Write, reminisce in your mind, feel sorry for your self and even cry if you need to. The key is making yourself only allow thoughts of him during that special time. The rest of the day thoughts of him are off limits you have life to live. In time you will begin to forget having that time for remembering him or something great will come along and you will find yourself with better things to do.
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Old 01-09-2009, 10:36 AM
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I know how you feel.i broke up with this boy and we dated just four months and I still care for him and I can imagine you..2 years....!All I can say is that you have to find something that will occupy your thoughts, go out with friends, go to clubs, you'll find another guy that will replace the old one.One thing that always works for me is that I always think how he has moved on so it gives me a reason more not to think about him.You should move on to, life goes on without him )))
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Old 02-08-2009, 07:01 AM
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girl!!! you got to get him on the phone i know this for a fact you will never get over him you need to call him and tell him that you want to talk!! tell him how much you have missed him and you love him!! if it is meant to be it will work out

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