Can someone give me a little love advice?

zabeon_07 · #1 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 07:12 PM

I talked with a friend of mine that I have seen in a year or so. I think I'm kinda in love with her, but I think she knows that and I never told her. I can tell she feels the same way. The problem is, I don't want to be in a relationship, because I'm leaving out of town next week to start college. What should I do?

Matt M · #2 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 07:26 PM

Stay friends with her, keep in touch often, and maybe sometime down the road when the timing is right, something will become of it. One warning: don't be too forward with your feelings as it could scare her off. Just play it cool.

Propinquity · #3 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 07:42 PM

Talk to her. Not all women are completely adverse to the idea of a mutual fling. If you're leaving in a week, what do you have to lose?

Maestro · #4 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 08:24 PM

I think you should just be friendly to her for a week, and then you'll be gone, and you'll meet someone else.

Miss Brookyn · #5 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 12:16 AM

Before you leave i think it wold be nice to say"You mean alot to me and I will miss you. If I weren't embarking on the most important trek of my life I wouldve liked get to know you on a different level."be a bit vague. but let her know how you feel.