love..advice?

ughhh fuck the fake · #1 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 12:18 PM

so theres this boy&we've known each other since da 4th gr. we both like each other but never told each other. i kno he like me cuss my bf sent him a note asking him if he like me. he told her yes. i saw the note but ddnt take it as a step to asking him out. 5th gr he got a gf i think he still liked me but i dk. so they broke up. we graduate from 5th gr and we ended up going to da same middle skool 6th gr we didnt even talk. 7th gr he started flirting with me. 8th gr things got crazy he tried to kiss me, hugging me, and touching me but when he got wit his friends he started acting stuckup. so i stopped liking him. near the end of the skool yr he started flirting me and i gained my feelings for him again. nd of course we graduatue. i want to tell him how i feel but i dnt kno if he still like me. my friends think he do cuss he act like it but i dk. i want to ask him out but if he still like me. what should i do ask him out? see if he still like me? wait till he ask me out? or move on.

nickyname · #2 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 12:24 PM

Of course you should. You've waited long enough now make the first move. What can it hurt really?

nyblondie · #3 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 12:30 PM

i think you should ask him to the movies or a nice lunch. his actions will tell you if he really likes you. and if he doesnt at least you had a nice time togethor but im sure he does.

The Wiseguy · #4 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 02:15 PM

just go up to him and ask him personally thats the only way to go about it....dont give him the runaround because if he finds another girl you'll lose your chance so just go up to him and find out the facts

takeasmile · #5 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 02:18 PM

how ironic...this story sound just like 2 people in my old school..lolz

Joann H · #6 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 02:19 PM

tell him how you feel, before it is too late. If neither one of you say anything, then what is the point in that? Say something to him, if he likes you too then you might just like what happens next. But what ever you do don't wait!!!!!!

Archangel · #7 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 02:20 PM

he sounds like an idiot. and this sounds like infatuation

"08"grad. · #8 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 02:55 PM

he likes u...but he is trying to figer things out himself,i thought u were an"08"grad...but ur only going to the 9th grade,hahahah,lol,4 more years f high skool, sucks for you.anyways things change in high skool, he's going to cahnge.u could ask...but if u want it to last,u should try to be close friends,really close, then in 10, 11 grade, ask him for the truth.

Leah M · #9 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 04:21 PM

I think you should go for it

niaunleashed · #10 (**permalink**) 12-08-2008, 10:45 PM

Men ask women out not the other way around. If he was man enough he would've asked you out, especially since he knew you from the 4th grade. You're starting highschool now there are alot more mature and trust me when you get there ur not going to even care about him and his childish, stuck up ways.

i am boored<3lol · #11 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 05:06 PM

do it:] because if you dont you will spend lots of time wondering:what if?lol

pinkylicious · #12 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 10:51 PM

c if he still likes u,and wait for him to ask u out.

Taylor · #13 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 11:22 PM

to be honest as a boy, i much preffer when girls dont beat around the bush as it were. I know i would like you to just talk to me and ask me if i liked you then let me be the one to ask you out - masculine thing. so yeah id say go for it and just see were he is

jules · #14 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 07:12 AM

It seems like you two have been dancing around each other for a while. I'd say be direct. Tell him how you feel and that you think he likes you too and just ask him out!If you two keep playing the waiting game, then nothing will happen. You only live once, and if you wait and he doesn't get up the nerve to ask, then you'll always be left wondering what could have been. Someone here has to be brave and ask. Be the one.Best wishes to you!