What advice about love does Mercutio give Romeo?

which one is it?Mercutio advises Romeo not to be burdened by love, which is too tender a thing to be weighted down by oppressivethoughts and feelings.Mercutio advises Romeo to give a lot of thought to his feelings on love, since it is such a rare thing indeed.Mercutio advises Romeo to ignore all feelings of love, since they tend to lead to disaster.Mercution advises Romeo to not ignore his feelings of love, and to go to his love with haste

I like to think it's the first one, but I really have no clue. My instinct would be the first one.