He is in love with another girl and I'm in love with him, and having his baby. HELP?!?

SuperStar! · #1 (**permalink**) 03-28-2010, 08:04 AM

I don't know why she is still with him, if me and him are having a kid. We are both young, I'm 17 and he is 16. she is 14!! I would do anything for him and he doesn't care about me at all. He cares about the baby but not about me. What should I do!

jfitzgerald19 · #2 (**permalink**) 04-01-2010, 08:04 AM

Get an abortion and get your mom to home school you.

lulucrazyforboo · #3 (**permalink**) 04-05-2010, 08:04 AM

Oh MA gawd

harsh truth · #4 (**permalink**) 04-07-2010, 08:04 AM

Jeremy Kyle.

waukeene · #5 (**permalink**) 04-11-2010, 08:04 AM

He wants to hump and dump, like with you.

Keith T · #6 (**permalink**) 04-13-2010, 08:04 AM

wow...

You can't do anything to change his feelings. If he is in love with someone else, unfortunately, you can't change that. Don't try to change yourself to make him love you, because then you'll be unhappy. I would suggest you break up with him and find someone who will love and respect you for you.

I would also suggest going on birth control after you have your baby. I would also suggest investing in some condoms... and using them.

Good luck.

anti_israel01 · #7 (**permalink**) 04-17-2010, 08:04 AM

Thats your fault for getting pregnant just to get on teen moms. You are an idiot and should abort the baby and kick the guy in the nut ts!!!!!

Noel R · #8 (**permalink**) 04-22-2010, 08:04 AM

Honey, if he left you for a freaking 14-year old, he's not worth your time. You may think you love him but really, think about it and decide if he's worth the effort. You're pregnant, you have enough going on that you don't want to deal with. So don't take on the stress of investing emotions in a guy who's never going to reciprocate

Nick M · #9 (**permalink**) 04-24-2010, 08:04 AM

Take care of your baby and forget him. Hes obviously not concerned about the baby if hes not making an effort to work things out with you. Think about it. He will also get bored of the other girl and move on to another. He scum and if he cant get his act together now, he wont after the baby is born.

Elizabeth J · #10 (**permalink**) 04-26-2010, 08:04 AM

wow just screw him and have DA baby but don't let him near it take him into court and get child custody. wen he turns 18 and is still wit her he'll go to prison for child molestation BC shes under age..... Just make sure if he's still with her at 18 u report it!

Aryan · #11 (**permalink**) 04-27-2010, 08:04 AM

talk to a therapist

strawberryscream · #12 (**permalink**) 05-02-2010, 08:04 AM

Walk away from him and never look back. I know it will be hard sweetie but everyone goes through it. If you don't move on he will treat you worse and leave you eventually. I know because I was dumped after begging, sucking, and ..... to keep a man for two years. Guys don't think desperate is cute. If you show him your strong, don't need him, and am gonna be a awesome mommy; he'll only want you sweetie

Kimberly S · #13 (**permalink**) 05-03-2010, 08:04 AM

Get on birth control next time.

MMmm · #14 (**permalink**) 05-08-2010, 08:04 AM

You are very young to be in this situation, its hard enough when you're a lot older, you must be going through hell. At 16 he maybe is feeling very scared as you must be, about the fact that you are bringing a new life into the world. Maybe that's the reason he is with this other girl, because he cant deal with this hard situation, and is trying to pretend it is not happening, You say he cares about the baby not you, which must be very hard to take, its very upsetting to be left alone while pregnant. You have to try and get on with having this child in as calm a way as you can. Its stressful for the child growing inside you when his or her Mother is so stressed out and unhappy. It may be that he is just very afraid at the moment about becoming a Father, and after the child arrives will see that he is making a mistake by not being involved more at this time. hopefully it will work out for the best for all of you, and I wish you all the very best.