GIRLS, PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!! love advice for a guy...?

gjabbyrider · #1 (**permalink**) 04-30-2010, 08:31 AM

okapi, so Ive had a crush on this girl for a LongnAime. but its only been a few months we've been hanging out and doing stuff. shes become a really close friend. she knows that i like her 100%, even though I've never actually told her, but i made it clear. she is very flirty with me, very touchy, and we have kissed a few times. now the thing is, she has a boyfriend. she doesn't seem very happy with him, and she'll always complain about him to me. her bf is a shrimp, but yet shes sticks with him! its driving me crazy! now this girl is very "on and off" with me. some days shes really into me, others she'll practically ignore me. I'm not sure if she likes me or is just playing me. i want to ask but i dint want to get a "no". she has her bf to fall back on and i will land flat on my face

i really REALLY want to be with this girl, but i dint know if she likes me or is just stringing me along, and i dont know what to tell her. what should i do?!?!?! i really want "us" to happen

lyssac08 · #2 (**permalink**) 05-04-2010, 08:31 AM

I am going to be honest with you. I stopped reading once you mentioned that the girl had a boyfriend. If she cheats on YOU with HIM, what makes YOU any different? I assure you she will do the same thing when a new boy comes along. Don't put yourself through that.

yourmtgbanker · #3 (**permalink**) 05-07-2010, 08:31 AM

either...
beaus of her bad relationship shes grown attached to you
hot and cold moods a result of guilt

or...
shes doing it to get back at him
hot and cold because shes using you basically

DEANA K♥ · #4 (**permalink**) 05-10-2010, 08:31 AM

Girls love to be told how much their loved. So tell her what you feel. Even if she doesn't feel the same,she'll have it in her mind and maybe she will start feeling the same way. If it doesn't work out with her boyfriend then she will most likely go to you for support. So tell her how you feel(:

WhatAmI? · #5 (**permalink**) 05-13-2010, 08:31 AM

Okay here's what you do, it's full proof to get you your answer without putting yourself out there.

Just tell her, I can't do this with you if you have a boyfriend. If she asks what tell her, be flirty and kiss. She can go one way or the other. If she says it was nothing, then she was stringing you along and you need to move on. If she has to think about it, there's a possibility for you, and then you can try acting nicer but not going too far, and then she could dump her boyfriend for you, or stay with him. That way you know who she really picks.

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Gaspode the wonder dog · #6 (**permalink**) 05-15-2010, 08:31 AM

Wow lol: I think if you got something to say to her say it. Your playing games with her and she's playing them with you as well. Someone has to spoil the pot and talk besides your rotating around her like a lost planet anyway you might as face the rejection and move on to a girl with time for you.

Kirstyn Sierra · #7 (**permalink**) 05-20-2010, 08:31 AM

If you re all REALLY like her that much, you would put your fears aside and just ask her and talk about it. Don't be afraid of "no". Because there are other girls out there who would just totally love you.

But if this was me...I'd say that the person is playing with me; using me.

Hope I helped. =)