I LOVE her but I moved 3 hours away, I need a lot of help, PLEASE?

♥ Gator ♥ · #1 (**permalink**) 12-24-2008, 08:19 AM

First, thanks for your time, I'll be very grateful if you take some time to read and answer to help me.
She was my neighbor for 4 years, but in the last year I started to notice that she is perfect, and I fell deeply in love with her, and I also noticed that she looked at me a lot and when I saw her she looked elsewhere and blushed a bit. I'm almost sure that she feels something for me.
So at the beginning of December I was told that my family was moving in December to another city that is 3 hours away, and I was so sad... I started to compose the saddest song ever made, and I started to write a text message with all my feelings, love, sadness... and HELL NO, it was accidentally sent to her. The next day I saw her (I saw her every day) and she was like affective somehow to me, but she had to stop because her parents were near.
Well I can't detail too much because English is not my main language.
So at December 27 I was leaving my house but I went to visit her in the morning, her sister said that I should come later because she was brushing her hair and left the shower some minutes ago. I returned later and she was affective to me too, but I couldn't say goodbye because of an emergency.
Now I haven't seen her in around 2 weeks and I haven't talked to her or anything, I'm very sad and when I'm alone I cry, please help, what can I do?

jazzy b · #2 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 08:19 AM

Move on, there is other fish in the sea.

cooljean g · #3 (**permalink**) 12-30-2008, 08:19 AM

You have to move on

rauldall69 · #4 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 08:19 AM

you gotta let it go

really sorry but even if you were to go through with a long distance relationship, it would be way too much of an emotional strain. forget about her, find another girl.

&rea · #5 (**permalink**) 01-04-2009, 08:19 AM

move on dint be a bitch boy and cry about it LMFAO there are millions of other girls!!

shark_315 · #6 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 08:19 AM

That is a really tough situation but it seems like the only alternative for you is to move on. I'm sure there are plenty of other girls who are just as perfect for you in your new city. On the other hand though, do you have her phone number? Why don't you try writing her a letter or giving her a call? Always an option. Either way, you will figure it out with time.

Good Luck!

Dena C · #7 (**permalink**) 01-09-2009, 08:19 AM

tell her that you love here and that you want her to be around. when you live 3 hours away ask your parents if you can see her. ask her if want to see a movie or do something cool.