this break up hurts & id love your advice?

everything happens for a reason. he broke up with u so you can find a better guy who loves you even more and will never break your heart.

awWNWor you. i dont know what advice your looking for but i suggest you forget about him because it seems like his playing with your feelings and you dont deserve it.
your better off without him and he used that his holding you back reason as an excuse if he lovede you he would stick by your side.
so just try and forget about him i know its easier said than done but just give it a try. and theres plenty of fish in the sea.
good luck!!!!!!!!
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Its time to move on even though it hurts your better without him.
He is willing to sleep with you but with no commitments & then he brings another girl around to rub it in your face.No you can do better than that. Time will heal your wounds & make you a stronger person.
If he comes around again you know now he is not true and you are better off without him.

In my idea u should act cool but don't get a new guy for your self for a little time and endure it. Mostly guys do it to make the girl jealous or make her feel that Ok we are done now u should go Ur own way, and i have gotta go my own way. Act nice with his ff and don't show that Ur upset. After a month if he still doesn't leave the girl or doesn't come to u for solving the matter then he meant for you to get a better boy friend. And be careful to be with him, his friends, mutual friends and ff. Try to hang out more with them and be careful not to let them sleep. Hope it helped. Good luck

Seems like he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. He was a good actor when telling you he loved you and crying while doing it. He wanted to have his freedom while you went away but, once you came home he wanted to "sleep" with you. Forget about that looser

there are things that we desire but destiny takes it away...and its only with time we know that we were lucky not to get what we had desired.

my advise to u and many other young girls is not to sell itself short, and fall for guys unless they take you as there life partners with dignity through a marriage. only with respect comes love, not by cheating and deceiving people....be happy for not ending up with a guy who could have left u when u needed him the most.....and just learn the lesson from this, dint get bitten twice!you will find someone better...

Why did you give your self away to him if you were not married? If it was to try to get him back that obviously did not work, so you need to make sure it never happens again with him or anyone else unless he is your husband. What you need to learn is that by sleeping with someone you will not "keep" them. He obviously doesn't respect you so your take away is that you are better then giving your self away to keep someone. He told you he was "moving on" in not so many words and now he has shown you. You need to remember you are better then being treated like a piece of meat!!

hm mm this is SO sad this literally made my heart sink when i read this. you two sounded like you were so in love and its always something as tiny as moving out of state for schools that wrecks a relationship. i know that if both of you work at it hard because it would require effort that you could make the distance work. but it sounds like hes gone silly he believes hes holding you back i think he really does love you but it the if you really love that person you ll let them go.. becks he really doesn't wanna hold you back obviously you have alto of potential to go far with your education. he just wants the best for you. also he may because hes not educated or working believe hes not good enough for you and that you deserve better than him which is sad and that's when if you think and know he is good enough for you that you tell him that make him feel special because he obviously thinks you would be better off with someone else. he wants you to be happy. and as to the other girl he brought to the friends well maybe they are just friends or maybe if he knew you were Gina be there he wanted you to see that your better off without him that he can find happiness with someone else and that you should go and find the guy he reckons you deserve which he doesn't think is him because he clearly wants you to get over him not because he doesnt love and care for you but because he doesnt think hes good enough for you if that makes sense. sorry if it doesnt. but hope i was some help. i think you really needa talk to him and if hes what you want and you dont want him being with anyone else then tell him that because i bet he still loves you

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