please help me i really love i mean it i need a chance?

Hollynfaith · #1 (**permalink**) 05-09-2010, 09:58 AM

Please love me its a question of life and death?
hey i am going out with a girl for more than 2 years all of a sudden she called me once and told me she wants a break i was shocked and didn't know how to handle the situation i kept on testing her i want her back i really love her and need her later on i messaged her friends about my feelings about my girlfriend everyone got irritated now she said she wants to break up i am shattered told her can you give me one last chance she said 98% she wont but somewhere she will think about me so should i wait for her till her exams get over and then ask her out...? the problem is what if she doesn't come its been 2 years for our relationship

Grand Rapids Girl · #2 (**permalink**) 05-11-2010, 09:58 AM

You have to grow up and move on.

If there was another answer to your situation, some words or phrases that would work, some technique, then someone would have got very rich from it many, many years ago. Nothing will work.

Repeatedly asking the same question in different sections is only going to get your account suspended.

Hannah - Louise S · #3 (**permalink**) 05-13-2010, 09:58 AM

sup rise her with flowers

Deep · #4 (**permalink**) 05-15-2010, 09:58 AM

Well at the moment you're just making it worse by acting clingy like that. Girls want a guy who is going to be strong, not break down when something difficult comes along. Man up and show her that you are something she can't live without!

belle2486 · #5 (**permalink**) 05-19-2010, 09:58 AM

I'm sorry to tell you this, but things don't really seem to look up for you in this one. She really doesn't seem interested in staying with you or getting back together with you, and it sounds like she's really trying to break away from you. I'd give her a break, and use that time to mend yourself up, and look for more. It's time to move on, as bad as that may suck. If you absolutely are intent on trying to get her back, wait for the exams to get over, but don't ask her out. Just talk to her. See how she's doing. If you're ever going to have anything again, you simply have to start over. If you just jump in and try to get her back again, she's just going to say screw you, leave me alone. Your best bet, honestly, is to try to move on.

loveisalosinggame · #6 (**permalink**) 05-20-2010, 09:58 AM

Yes I know it hurts, but as a love relationship consultant, if one of u need a break, then let it happen, if u keep pushing it and talking to her friends and try to get her back, then u push her away more because that defeats the purpose of the break. Just live Ur life. Now is Ur chance to Occupy itself with things that you always wanted to do. And yes you will feel hurt, but the good times will come. A number of us have gone through the same thing, but we got through it. As for her and her exams, this is her time in doing a good job on them. She is thinking about her future, and you should respect that. As for asking a life or death question. Concern raises in many ways. Be careful and don't make an idiotic mistake. You can't let life win and run u over. You have to be the one that's out there winning every bit that life throws at u. Taking as much opportunities as you can. If this is Wat she wants then you can't be selfish. If you really care about her You have to just accept and respect her decision. Hope for the best.