Im in love with my best girl friend but she has a boy friend. HELP!?

lillollipop1991 · #1 (**permalink**) 06-04-2010, 10:01 AM

right i am a girl 15 years old and dint give me this oh your too young to be in love what ever i just want some help and advice please.
i am in love with my best girlfriend and she told me that she loves me back but no one accepted her and me being together so when i asked her out she avoided an answer and now she has a boyfriend

but she says that she is still in love with me but doesn't want to hurt her boyfriend. what should i do, i would honestly do anything for this girl i love her so much, please please please help. thank you in advance for anyone who replies to this question. xx

Garrett C · #2 (**permalink**) 06-08-2010, 10:01 AM

i would leave her alone because you is going to hurt in the end

☆_STEPHANiE · #3 (**permalink**) 06-13-2010, 10:01 AM

Maybe you will get hurt but if she does change, let her in. For now just wait and see.

lawrenceba549 · #4 (**permalink**) 06-15-2010, 10:01 AM

Your friend isn't gay. Leave it be and stay friends with her.

karmila o · #5 (**permalink**) 06-19-2010, 10:01 AM

your in high school so it isn't unreasonable that her public image is what rules most of her decisions. In the real world people don't really care if your gay/bi or not (and i can guarantee that most guys would find it hot), but in high school, its silly but no kid wants to be the freak, and i guess that's what she is afraid of.

I think you might have to talk to her more about your feelings and hers to see if there is any potential between you two ( it doesn't sound like she is gay/bi, but I'm not there). But either way, stay true to yourself and how you feel, other people only affect you as much as you let them. And high school is a VERY SMALL portion of your life, so don't be afraid to be you.