17 year old love stuff. need advice.?

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I believe that YOU believe you are in love. Again, I have been there.
It is not too late to start setting boundaries in your relationship though.
Just start with one little thing at a time. Wait a little longer to text. Hang out with your friends one day instead of him.
IF it is love, you still both need space. I have learned a very quick way to end a relationship is to smother each other.
It is not that it is unhealthy to see each other everyday IF you are living together or in a serious relationship. But if you are uncertain of the relationship (you mentioned earlier he might break up with you) then give each other some space and time to think.
Like I said before, figure out what YOU want out of life. Because life is not all about relationships. There is a lot more to it.
Just keep breathing.
I know this sucks, but statistics show, you will probably break up. Young love in today's society rarely works. Start to focus on you. Find out what you like and want out of life that does not involve a relationship.
Good luck.

By thinking about yourself and not him for once. The reason you are clinging on to him so tightly is because your afraid of losing him. But when your always paranoid that you might lose someone then 9 times out of 10 it does end because no one likes to be suffocated in a relationship. It's not healthy nor is it fun. Guys dint want a clingy girl. A true dream girl is "FUN" to be with or around and doesn't get all worried just because you have to spend some time apart once in a while. Thats OK. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. So make sure you have your own friends and your own life because if you dint? Eventually he will get tired of it & before you know it, your no longer fun to be around.
You can love someone without revolving your whole world around him. Thats a turn off to guys especially guys that are still young. I understand your only like this is because its your first real love but stop worrying about losing him and worry about making sure you still have friends and a life of your own. As long as your not rest ricing him from having a life then who wouldn't want to be with someone who lets you breath, is still fun to be around esp when you know they truly love you?

you re only like this because you re afraid to lose him! i know you love him but you should think for yourself too! try not to dwell yourself so much on him; it is going to be painful once its over. but keep it balance between yourself and him and do the best you can to keep the relationship going.