Need a little love advice what do you think?

BRAINS! · #1 (**permalink**) 12-18-2008, 10:12 AM

So I've been with my boyfriend for 2yrs and the other day he asked me why did I love him, I couldn't really give him one answer right then and there cause there's so many reason that I do,and the reasons that I said I guess they weren't good enough for him. So he gets mad and says that I really don't love him cause if I did I should be able to give him an answer as soon as he asks.Do you think that's true? Because God knows I love that boy more than anything and I just don't understand where he's coming from

In a good mood · #2 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 10:12 AM

It sounds like he's being kind of emotional. Maybe he needs reassured. Try writing him a letter with all your reasons. My boyfriend loves it when I write him letters.

Skiggy · #3 (**permalink**) 12-21-2008, 10:12 AM

He probably thought u hesitated and made it up maybe. Just explain to him that you didn't know where to start because there are so many things you could say about him.

nascargirl07 · #4 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 10:12 AM

Well you should have told him then and there all of those reasons. He's right in a way, you know everything about him that you like.

georgiarevenuer · #5 (**permalink**) 12-25-2008, 10:12 AM

He's trying to say that you THINK you love him, and feels you really don't KNOW him. It's not that he's asking about actual love, he is asking about how well you really KNOW and UNDERSTAND him. You can love him DEEPLY, but if you don't truly have an "understanding" of who he is as a man, he finds that disappointing. Make sense?

Ready For Labor · #6 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 10:12 AM

Hmmm...I've been with someone like this before and sadly, a person like this is extremely difficult to satisfy. Your best will most likely not be good enough for him and all it will do is drain you emotionally, mentally and physically.

A person's reason for loving someone is solely their own individual reason and can't live up to an expectation. I can't tell you how to love someone and for what reasons anymore than you can tell me.

Lavonne C · #7 (**permalink**) 12-27-2008, 10:12 AM

This isn't true. It happens sometimes that you can't express what you truly feel in words. But you know how you really feel. In that case, try using some pickup lines. My sis was like in the same situation a few years ago and it worked great. Btw, can you answer my question please, it's about love

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AukYVfKnV.CFsJWP4NvR8lcM_dw4;_ylv=3?qid =20110203232648AAIHSD1

Sarah T · #8 (**permalink**) 01-01-2009, 10:12 AM

I think you should just tell him how you feels [you said that you've too many reasons right?]
After that, you ask him the same question again.

amitav_sahoo · #9 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 10:12 AM

He is just been childish

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We do love often with no reasons, sometime against the reasons, and cannot anything about it.

What your bf wanted is to hear nice things about himself that you like int him. We, men, unconsciously need it very much. Tell him how funny, strong, sexy etc. he is - and he will fly around you. Do not reply that you cannot think abut anything in particular. He will understand it in the different way then you. To him you love him for something you can appreciate fin him, and if you cannot think about anything in particular - that makes him insecure. Be a smart girl - live happy.

bookish · #10 (**permalink**) 01-03-2009, 10:12 AM

Once a MAN called Shakespeare said, "They do not love that do not show their love."

So what this guy needs is you showing him love rather than swearing to God that you do.
Get closer and he will know for sure that you love him; it's a better idea than mugging on a crib that lists the reasons of your loving him.