HELP I am madly in love with a man, that has a girlfriend and kids...?

kolpo · #1 (**permalink**) 07-10-2010, 11:34 AM

The thing is we both had relationships and both have kids. I cheated and so did he. We fell in love with each other. We kept this going for a year and now he says he cant continue with me because he wants me to leave my boyfriend, but he has never told me that he would leave his girlfriend.He has told me to just leave things alone. I WORK WITH HIM and see him almost everyday! What should I do? Leave my boyfriend, or focus on me and my family and try to make it work.? I think I am not in love with my boyfriend anymore

Peter S · #2 (**permalink**) 07-11-2010, 11:34 AM

There are six billion people in this world!

Jamie Taliaferro · #3 (**permalink**) 07-15-2010, 11:34 AM

what the hell is wrong with you? there are 6 billion people on earth and you have to cheat on your boy-friend.. i hate women like you!

deadlepoo · #4 (**permalink**) 07-17-2010, 11:34 AM

Stop dating him. He is not committed to the relationship and is only using you. Be cordial to him at work but nothing more. You are wasting your time with him and you know it. Focus on your family and do what is right for them. Then everything else will fall into place. P.S. Don't ever date anyone you work with. See what problems it causes.

Mika · #5 (**permalink**) 07-20-2010, 11:34 AM

He "fell in love with you" but yet wants to stay with his family. Think about that for a second. How does that make sense? Why destroy a family? Why stay with someone who isn't willing to give of himself 100% and yet requires that of you? Have more respect for yourself and find someone else. Obviously you shouldn't stay with your current boyfriend if you don't love him but ditch the other guy as well and start over.

himeko · #6 (**permalink**) 07-22-2010, 11:34 AM

You are an immoral twit.

reardwen · #7 (**permalink**) 07-27-2010, 11:34 AM

Move on from this man he is bad news you aren't in love with him you are in love with love
Go to counseling with your own husband FB and either fix it or break it off but definitely leave this guy alone get over him and get on with your life someone out there will love you that isn't a cheater BTW you are too. Rethink your priorities
He will never leave because he doesn't want to pay child support
He just wants you to have sex only with him.
I know you dint want to believe it but some men are wretched things!

Wants2gohome 2 · #8 (**permalink**) 07-31-2010, 11:34 AM

I wish I had a f*ck in nickel for every time a heard or read about a situation like this.

What do you retards expect to happen?!? You're cheating with someone. All bets are off!!

And to cheat with someone you work with. You're bright. Another one who shouldn't breed.

janNmike · #9 (**permalink**) 08-01-2010, 11:34 AM

Of course you're not in love with your boyfriend anymore. You have lowered yourself to the level of this other cheater's toilet. Toilets don't have feelings.