I think the fact that he was being honest and up-front about his past, shows that he is an honorable man. As long as you keep the honesty and communication open, I would give him a second chance. If my fiance cheated on me, however, I would not stand for that. If he told me he had cheated in the past and was finally ready for a real relationship, I would definitely stay with him. Some girls are fearful when they hear that their man has a history of cheating, so they just assume he will always be a cheater. I have cheated on my old boyfriends and I am not proud of that. I realize that I was seeking attention that I wasn't getting from the man I was with, so I got it elsewhere. I was 19 and wasn't looking for anything serious. I am 27 now and have told my fiance about my past. He understands that people go through phases and that they change. Let her know why you cheated and that you realize that's not the person you want to be. Prove to her you have changed. If you have ALREADY cheated on her, than I think she will leave you. And I think she should
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