huh!? whats his game! would love any thoughts or advice please! :)?

jsh2009 · #1 (**permalink**) 08-02-2010, 12:46 PM

OK basically threes this guy I've liked for ages..I'd say I'm about 85% sure he likes me as well...
literally a few months back we talked quite a bit...he'd flirt with me and stuff...i swear i heard him saying he liked me to his friends and his friends suddenly all started talking to me...someone asked him what girls he goes for and he said 'hazel eyes ...curly hair and curvy ' which is basically me........but then we were off for exams so i didn't see him for ages!!!!

next time i see him is prom he stands really close to where I'm dancing with my friends....he keeps looking at me.....I'm waiting to go and say hi when i see him dancing with various girls most of them a bit on the short dress slutty side....he dances with my best friend right in front of me! but keeps looking at me !? later he says hi and we talk a bit ....at the end of the night he's asking my friend for her number !??..

anywayTy totally confused and have basically given up .. on the first day back he keeps looking at me ...everytime i look in his directions he s looking straight at me...sitting down in the gynasium with friends when he strolls up.. looks at me but then sits behind with my bestfriend the one he danced with at prom...she asks me something and then he's like 'oh hi ruby do you still remember me?!' 'whats my name then' he sounds kind of pissed of ... a couple of boys who are my friends turn up and start talking to me and he looks jealous! and he says there no 'peng'/hot girls to me and my best friend ...

so after that it was just plain awkward ! and it seems as though he s ignoring me ...no looking at me...no saying hi ....nothing

then suddenly last week my friends like jake cant keep his eyes of of you...and i do see him looking at me again...and all of sudden he says hi absolutely everytime he sees me just ignoring anyone else i may be with and he winks at me and stuff ...he also tells my best friend that she was a right slut at prom!? he is one of those 'ladies man' types but he seems to treat me differently from what i've seen like other girls he'll grab from behind around the waist and just not take no for answer etc etc but with me he just winks and 'playfully' punches me...stuff liek that etc ...he's asked me who i've been out with.... is he a player who just wants to flirt with me ...and lots of other girls!...or does he like me?

Alaina · #2 (**permalink**) 08-07-2010, 12:46 PM

in my opinion hes totally not worth it, i spend most of the last year of high school liking a guy i thought liked me but nothing happened.. So i wasted my time basically - just go onto the next guy.. one that likes you and doesn't go about the house to get to you.

bodyonmeee · #3 (**permalink**) 08-10-2010, 12:46 PM

Answer: I've no idea what the game is called ~ other than a 'A Game', but maybe you could tell him to 'Go play it somewhere else as you are pissed off with being being given front row to the 'Good Cop Bad Cop' routine.

On the other hand, why don't you recount to him ALL of the points about his behavior you've explained here, and ask him to explain them to you!

On the other hand, you could save your breath and walk away.

Sash

thomas54521 · #4 (**permalink**) 08-11-2010, 12:46 PM

Girl, I was in the same situation as you a few months back and mate your best Option is to forget about this guy, he seem like he is interested, but that may only to see what he can get out of you, i should know as i was put in the same situation, this guy would always talk to me say hi and every so often when he thought no one was looking he would touch my hand or the back of my neck, then warm i would see his getting with some other girl then i would here him say he was a **** to his mates and he wished he never did it but a few days later he would do it all over again.