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I met my ex boyfriend two years ago. We dated off and on up until now and agreed that we were in love. We were going to get married after school and have children and grow old together. The last time we broke up was about a month and a half to two months ago. It was on his part, he said that we should take a break because school was starting up again and I was really busy and he needed some time to think about some things. I didn't really care because I was truly busy and didn't have very much time to see him anyways. I figured we'd get back together at some point like always. Well he dated (if you could even call it that) this girl for like a month. While he was dating her, I went over to his house because we're still really good friends and we ended up making out. He called and told her but they did not break up until a little while afterward. Well we are still friends and I went to his house the other day and we made out a lot.. again (this time he was single, though). I am still in love with him, and I don't know if he still loves me. I don't want to tell him because I would feel really annoying and if he didn't love me back, it would be incredibly awkward to continue our close friendship the way it is now. With this being said, I just can't stand holding my feelings in either. I love him too much, and the suspense of what he would say is killing me.
Does anyone have any good advice for me? I'm so stuck right now and I have nobody to talk to about this. I really, really appreciate it.
Ok next time you go to his house DON'T MAKE OUT WITH HIM! and if he says anything like " what the ?UK, why won't u make out with me" or something like that then you say " oh well I didn't know u still had feelings for me" if he says something like no then u say " then why Else would u make out with me? If u don't have feelings for me anymore then don't treat me like u still do have feels for me"
Sometimes love sex and lust get all mixed up. This guy is really not committed to you and somewhere deep down you know that. Yea you could call it dating when he was going out with this other girl, cause I bet that's what she called it. You don't mention your ages, but romantic pie in the sky love is really just that.
Everyone especially girls seem to want to get all hooked up with someone like an old married couple when they are really just starting out in life finding out who they are to their selves.The word love is really over used. You are infatuated with him and want someone to belong to committed to and be in love with, Why is the suspense of what he would say have you so tied up? Are you afraid he is not ready for an exclusive relationship with you and if you open up he will tell you that?
If you have that type of fear, then you really need to back off, He showed you how he really felt when he was dating someone else and you better open your eyes and see the reality of your relationship with him. Notice you call him your EX, so have some pride in your self and stop throwing yourself at this guy. Move on and don't use that old worn out excuse about don't wanting to loose him as a friend or resort to acting like a slut with him to try and hold on to him, cause you will lose any type of respect he has for you and his friendship if you go that route.
I know you may feel you have so much emotion and time in this guy, but the truth of the matter is that people do out grow each other and sometimes it's one sided. Let go!
I need some advice, I still love my ex boyfriend?
