for about a year me and this girl poked each other back and forth on Facebook
her Facebook said she was single
I have known her slightly over ten years
I told her I wish I had an excuse to talk to her
two days later she showed up at my house.
She found out where I lived from a friend and came over.
when she was here she was looking at me all flirty and smiling
so we started talking on Facebook
A week went by of just talking sometimes 3 times a day
and I asked her if she had a boyfriend
and she told me yes
She tells me she has to move, and then move again in two months and she wishes she could fix it
I asked if she moved in with her boyfriend. and she told me yes
she then tells me she is scared to move in with him
I have had a crush on this girl since High School. But every time we were around each other she had a boyfriend. I bumped into her at Walmart and that's why we added each other to Facebook
I had to tell her how I feel
so this is what I wrote
and after what she wrote back what am I supposed to do?
me:
I don't know if I should tell you this, but I feel like i am lying to you if I don't. And I don't want to look back and have any regrets. The very first time I saw you, I thought you were the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. And I have always wanted to get to know you. And now i have that chance. I know you have a boyfriend, and I don't want to do anything to jeopardize your relationship. And I definitely do not want to jeopardize our new found friendship. I don't want you to resent me. And I do not want to pressure you, so please don't feel pressured.
I am the kind of guy that wishes everyone happiness before my own. And I wish you all the happiness. And I really do wish your boyfriend is the guy for you, and hopefully for the rest of your life.
But if for any reason your relationship does not work out, I would like a chance to get to know you even a little more.
I promise I will never bring this up again. And I really hope you can understand why I had to tell you. I truly hope you will still write me and be my friend.
i am sorry for dropping this bomb shell on you. And please don't think about it too much. Please just live your life like you were. And know that if your ever single again there is a guy that wants a chance to be with you.
HERJuly 16 at 11:49am
I am starting to settle down about this boyfriend thing its just that i have never been with someone that truly respects me ever and it seems that this one does and it is scary aim kinda waiting for the other shoe to drop and even more now that he basically has con troll i live here and there is nothing i can do right now i shouldnt think of it like that but i do. As for you telling me that thank you. It wont make things awkward and i will still talk to you and i will keep it in mind.
Is this bad for me -long detail
