I don't think he really loves me, Advice?

driverk69 · #1 (**permalink**) 02-12-2009, 12:27 PM

I'm only thirteen but no comments on my age please (:
this boy that keeps telling me he loves me, and how much he really likes me is my sort of boyfriend - long story. but i really like him too, but i don't actually think he does like me as much as he says he does?
he doesn't really bother replying to my texts, but he has time to go on face book and that, i always have to make the first effort to talk to him, one time he said he 'can't be bothered to come out and see me because it was raining, and he has 'better' things to do' and he would put tennis before me. also, he knows this girl that likes him, like really likes him. and she tags him in these 'i love you' photos on face book, and he just puts 'thank you babe

x'

does he sound arrogant? xx

mlvue · #2 (**permalink**) 02-13-2009, 12:27 PM

yes he sounds arrogant and no he doesn't like you that much, sorry but I'm being honest. maybe, and just maybe he is saying these things in order to get you to "do stuff" with him. threes a good chance I'm wrong though but consider it

mary w · #3 (**permalink**) 02-14-2009, 12:27 PM

its lust

Please help me
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kamelåså · #4 (**permalink**) 02-16-2009, 12:27 PM

I agree with Robert. He might love you, but just doesn't know how to show it.

But it's more likely that he wants to "do stuff" and he knows that girls will be more likely to do stuff if the guy says he loves her.

Wait until he shows you that he loves you, or don't be eager to believe it. Good job for questioning it.

skibee79 · #5 (**permalink**) 02-20-2009, 12:27 PM

yes he does. Now listen hes trying to get u to run after him so he knows he can do whatever and u wont leave him BC u love him.. the only reason he wants u on this leash is so he knows he wont be alone.. so i say stop talking to him dint text him or talk to him and eventually he'll talk to u first yea it will be hard but it will be worth it then maybe u can get him on the leash