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Is it love or just attraction? Please help...?
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Old 04-19-2010, 01:30 PM
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I am a girl from the 10Th grade. There is this boy from my class. And i have a crush on him. He is always in my mind. I cannot stop thinking about him. I never get distracted from my studies because of him but when he comes in front of me, there is some sort of chemical reaction taking place in me. We've been best buddies for more than one and a half year. But i have heard people say that no one falls in love in this age and that all this is just attraction and lust. But this had never happened to me before. So. is it love or ......

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Old 04-21-2010, 01:30 PM
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I think you are in love.
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Old 04-23-2010, 01:30 PM
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i guess it is just attraction
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Old 04-28-2010, 01:30 PM
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It could be a really big crush and love can hit you At anytime but I doubt that it's love. Feel that way with all m crushes
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Old 05-01-2010, 01:30 PM
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Love is what you make of it. Could be a "love at first sight" sort of deal, or you could just be attracted to him.
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Old 05-03-2010, 01:30 PM
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This is nothing but Love. Falling in love has no age.
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Old 05-07-2010, 01:30 PM
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It's me, the boy from your class. I LOVE YOU BABY!
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Old 05-10-2010, 01:30 PM
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I honestly think it's just attraction. I have had a lot of crushes and I used to feel the exact same way about them. Like, I think about this girl all the time, but when I really have to focus on homework or football, I forget about her, but then she comes into sight and it feels like the whole world disappeared and it's just me and her, but it's never actually been true love for me, so I think Ur feelings are just an attraction.
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Old 05-12-2010, 01:30 PM
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You can fall in love at an early age and speaking from experience, it is the only pure love feeling that you will ever have without questioning others motives. Once a person gets their feelings badly crushed by one they love the feelings are never as pure, due to the constant awareness and fear of being hurt again. Young people can fall in love, but can the one they love fall unto them?
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Old 05-15-2010, 01:30 PM
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it's just kind of attraction
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Old 05-18-2010, 01:30 PM
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At this particular age...its Attraction.
U better wait for 3,4 years.
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Old 05-20-2010, 01:30 PM
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Forget all such things. Concentrate in studies. Make you career
OK.
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Old 05-22-2010, 01:30 PM
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its just attraction..

use your brain nothing positive can be ever achieved from this relation rite.
( you guys Hunt Evan completed your basic education,,leave aside job or career)
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Old 05-23-2010, 01:30 PM
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Its just a crush...
you'll get over it.

it has happened to me. so believe me.
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Old 05-28-2010, 01:30 PM
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Its attraction,keep touch with that boy, you will get love after 4-5 years
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Who says people don't fall in love in this age? Don't miss this chance. Valentine day is near, propose him.
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Old 06-01-2010, 01:30 PM
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Hi,

Hey it shows you have started getting feelings for opposite sex. No wrong of feeling like this at your age and that's pretty common but you should not drift away from these feelings or else you would not be able to concentrate on your study. It happens you see a nice people and feel like fall for him/her or sometime impress by their nature and character so much that we not able to get them out of our mind.

Please control your feelings. This is not love as you don;t know him. Love is when you know someone very well and then feel like this. You haven't even talked with her Rte? So just an attraction. Not love. Give yourself time to know him better.

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Old 06-02-2010, 01:30 PM
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how far is your final exams
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Old 06-04-2010, 01:30 PM
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i think it is just attraction,no love. because no space for a single question in love.love is a deep thing.when we in love then we dint know how he covered you
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Old 06-08-2010, 01:30 PM
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Yes It is true love. Love at first site.

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