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He said I love you!!! Help!!!?
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Old 04-21-2010, 01:44 PM
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Okay so there is this guy who I have been interested in for about a week. I know him through my friend who goes to his school. We exchanged numbers Last night and after a little while I admitted I liked him and he said he felt the same but that we should get to know each other better. So then we have been talking all day today and then tonight he sent me a message saying how amazing it is to talk with me like always and that he's going to bed....then he said I love you. I panicked and said it back!!! My friend said I should have so I did... But I don't know!! I really like him but like he said we don't know each other too well....I need advice!!! Oh and I'm 14 by the way but please don't judge me because of my age...thanks in advance!!

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Old 04-22-2010, 01:44 PM
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he said i love you after a week? wt. dear lord.
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Old 04-26-2010, 01:44 PM
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he doesn't "love" you so don't worry. you're both young so you just like each other
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Old 04-28-2010, 01:44 PM
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Oh well.

You have both admitted love.

Nothing left but sex and marriage for you both now.

At the rate of knots you are travel ling, sex should take place in about 2.5 hours time.

Marriage in 4 hours time.
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Old 04-30-2010, 01:44 PM
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I think Ur still to young to say i love u especially after knowing each other for just a week. You might think u love each other but trust me its not love we have all been through this before i would say dint say it to him until Ur together at least.
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Old 05-05-2010, 01:44 PM
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I think he may have meant love as in the way you love your friends and family.
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Old 05-06-2010, 01:44 PM
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he res what u do. u want to plan this very carefully go to his house, be nice, slowly walk right up to his face, now tell him how much u hate him
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Old 05-11-2010, 01:44 PM
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Nowadays the L word is said without its true meaning behind it. My guess is that he has some strong emotions for you, that he could only explain with the L word. So don't take it too serious.
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Old 05-13-2010, 01:44 PM
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It's OK.

We love our friends and we love our family. Sometimes these things trip off our tongues too easily.

It doesn't mean you are any obligation.

Tell him you love him as a good friend, whose company you enjoy.
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Old 05-18-2010, 01:44 PM
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oh gosh... this won't matter in a year, don't worry about it and don't let him into your pants. Have a fling and break his heart in the end it won't matter. I had mentor of mine once said. A girl hasn't done her civic duty if she's not broken 5 hearts before she gets to high school.

Edit: Just don't crush his heart... there is a difference I hope you know
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Old 05-19-2010, 01:44 PM
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He can't tell the difference between love and infatuation..
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Old 05-21-2010, 01:44 PM
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ah young love i will judge a little because in your teen years. love can be said and meant in may different ways. but i wouldn't worry he probably meant it in like a way how he love his mom or dad or the just loves you so just dint worry. if he want to move the relation a level just say we need more time to know each other better. just give it time
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Old 05-22-2010, 01:44 PM
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Hay OK so you are 14 so let me give you a little perspective on these words I Love You. You love your mom and dad you love your sisters and brothers you love your close friends you love your dog cat your room etc etc etc. My X boss is a female she knows my family she's a close friend to all of use and when we see each other and talk to her on the phone it has always at the end been love you see you later with a hug but we ain't bed fellows. We all care very much for each other and wish the best for each other and to this day would do anything for each other. So first we are not judging you you are growing up and need good responsible info to move on with you are growing and learning. Learning sometimes takes making mistakes that is how you learn As being an adult there are certain mistakes we don't want you to learn from so we provide you with info that most of the time you will not agree with but that is one of the mistakes we want you to learn minus the mistake for it could cost you in so many ways cause you are dealing with emotions and emotions can change at the drop of a hat. So you"re 14 and a boy says he loves you. These words in a relationship to me say I want to be with you the rest of your life as in the future. Between being 14 and moving away from home is a long time off, call it your future. So these words in your time are out of place unless you are getting married at 14. Proms, games what about college your place in life. What do you want to be. Where do you want to go. Do you inspire to be a lawyer mayor governor senator what path will or have you lay ed out for yourself future tense. So be careful plan smart have a good safe life and O I don't know you but love you Later
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Old 05-24-2010, 01:44 PM
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Just tell him that you want to take it slow. My girlfriend did that to me after I tried to kiss her too soon and we ended up having a very lovely relationship.

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