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*HELP* guys and girls!!! How to tell if he loves me?
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Old 01-12-2009, 12:59 PM
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This guy is claiming that he loves me and is being really romantic. Hes always there for me when I'm down and I always feel better when I talk to him on the phone....The problem is he has a very sexual side to him and he stares at me like I'm a piece of meat...I dint know what to do. Its like I have feelings for him because of what he says, not how he acts or looks... Its nice to feel loved but when is it too much? Help! This guy is like my best friend * hes hurt me before..but Ive gotten over it... and I'm NOT afraid to be sexually active.

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Old 01-16-2009, 12:59 PM
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he could just be trying to get in Ur pants...i had a guy that was after me for like 6 months (talked to me in a car without touching me at all for more than 7 hours a day for 6 months--i know crazy)..and after we made out and he got what he wanted from me, he never talked to me again...

at the time i wondered how the hell he could sacrifice his time that much and not like me at all..but it's true...he jugs wanted some...i guess i was a chase or a tease or whatever since i didn't give in so quickly... :/
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Old 01-20-2009, 12:59 PM
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What are you waiting for?! Go for it! :P He likes, you like him to.... isn't it how it works? Love comes with desire. That means if you love someone, you would like to kiss him and.... other private stuff.
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Old 01-21-2009, 12:59 PM
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Well tell him how u feel, he apparently likes u in someway (apparently sexually) but if u to talk it should be better
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Well good thing your NOT afraid to be sexually active....
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Old 02-04-2009, 12:59 PM
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Well you should be more specific...I mean there are times when I look at my wife like that Lil she like it though. We as humans have that "sexual side" to us. My wife has told me many times and I consider myself to be there for her in her times of need talk when we need to and be as communicative as possible. She truly is my best friend but there are times when we just have that wild carnivorous sex!!!!
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Old 02-09-2009, 12:59 PM
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No, no, no. Do not go out with him until he can actually prove he likes you. I found my boyfriend dating a girl named Monica. He PROVED he was sorry by going to my friends house and he cried for my forgiveness, and he didn't even ask me out for another month. He is a football player too, not the kind who sits on the bench.
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Old 02-13-2009, 12:59 PM
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"Its like I have feelings for him because of what he says, not how he acts or looks"

Says it all! It cant be love! Or anything close if its based on what he's saying! Saying one thing and showing it is another and actions speak louder than words!

If it's only a sex thing then go elsewhere where their is no emotion connection or else your just going to get hurt!
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Old 02-17-2009, 12:59 PM
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When you say he hurt you before, would that be physically or mentally. Either way I wouldn't put too much time or feelings into this guy. I would just be friends for as long as possible until he has shown responsibility for your feelings

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