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okapi, so Ive had a crush on this girl for a LongnAime. but its only been a few months we've been hanging out and doing stuff. shes become a really close friend. she knows that i like her 100%, even though I've never actually told her, but i made it clear. she is very flirty with me, very touchy, and we have kissed a few times. now the thing is, she has a boyfriend. !KEEP READING! she doesn't seem very happy with him, and she'll always complain about him to me. her bf is a shrimp, but yet shes sticks with him! its driving me crazy! now this girl is very "on and off" with me. some days shes really into me, others she'll practically ignore me. I'm not sure if she likes me or is just playing me. i want to ask but i dint want to get a "no". she has her bf to fall back on and i will land flat on my face
i really REALLY want to be with this girl, but i dint know if she likes me or is just stringing me along, and i dont know what to tell her. what should i do?!?!?! i really want "us" to happen
I think you should talk to her about her "shrimp" bf. See if she really is happy and so on. If she says no, tell her that you think it'd be best if you just break up with him, that it'll make her happy, and that you just want to make her happy...then later on ask her out.
Unfortunately she is playing you. You're basically her back up in case her boyfriend actually decides to break up for good. And she knows it'll work since you like her. I say be her friend but lose the love stuff. Then once she comes crying to you say, "Sorry, you had your chance. I'll be your friend but that's it." Hope I've helped.
She's using you. period. Give her an ultimatum whether it's him or you. You should get your answer straight from her. You may not like it but at least you really know what's going.
I think you need to really work up the courage and ask her whats up. I know that you are afraid of not getting the answer you want but do you really want her stringing you along if that's the case? Even though you want to became a couple if she is just messing with you when she feels like it and kicking you to the curve when she wants her boyfriend then it doesn't sound like it will be a great relationship. I think you should be very upfront with her and tell her what you think and see how she responds, if it's an answer you don't like then at least you'll know if you wanna stick around and see if one day she'll want things to happen or if you wanna move on and find someone that wants to make things happen for you either way know the answer and you have a choice good luck.
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