My Little Sister told me shes in love with our father, Help?

pika_452n · #1 (**permalink**) 01-16-2009, 01:18 PM

My 13 year old sister just told me shes in love with our father and asked me to help hook her up. What does one do in a situation like this? I'm 16.
Nah Ash she was serious, Shes always sitting on his lap and giving him kisses on his cheeks. Always talking bout him when hes not around and looking at pictures at him. Shes a little odd!

travel_gal · #2 (**permalink**) 01-19-2009, 01:18 PM

are you sure she wasn't just kidding ?

cindy s · #3 (**permalink**) 01-24-2009, 01:18 PM

Tell her she's too young, and being incest is gross.

scott p · #4 (**permalink**) 01-29-2009, 01:18 PM

You need to explain to her that having feelings for her father like that is not acceptable. If you feel uncomfortable doing this, or if after doing this she still can't get over her feelings, I would suggest some sort of therapy. These are unhealthy and abnormal feelings that need to be dealt with immediately.

GiNkNee · #5 (**permalink**) 01-30-2009, 01:18 PM

Tell her that you will if she gives you some first.

babangel14171 · #6 (**permalink**) 02-02-2009, 01:18 PM

Omg tell her that it's wrong to like Ur father that way and if she doesn't care then tell her that she may want to think about it and what she's saying

Just because · #7 (**permalink**) 02-04-2009, 01:18 PM

I would take this very seriously. She is obviously mistaking the love she has for him. Tell her she has to realize he is her father, and that is is all she should see him as. If it begins to get to serious, you might want to talk to a close member of the family (preferably a women) that you think will understand. She's 13 years old so this might just be a phase, but keep your eye on her. Take care of her.

Kurt C · #8 (**permalink**) 02-09-2009, 01:18 PM

Do you have a mother still around in the house? I would speak to your mother about this, or both parents together privately telling them your concerns for your sister and why she is feeling this way. If nothing is done, speak to a grandparent or a teacher you trust at school to get her some counseling. She definitely needs some council, a professional adult who can help her work through these feelings and why it is she's feeling this way. There could can be a lot going on in a 13 year old girls head, and she sounds like she is very confused. Did you ask your sister why she feels this way? I hope you act soon and everything works out. Good luck and God bless!

Hi im Nikki ♥ · #9 (**permalink**) 02-11-2009, 01:18 PM

You poor child. I can imagine how uncomfortable you must feel about this. You absolutely must act on this asap. You really need to explain to your sister that a father and daughter do not have that type of relationship. You should also explain to her that he could get in serious trouble for something like this. If she were to tell this to the wrong person, your father could be falsely accused. The best idea may be to talk to your mother(if she is around). If not, you should definitely talk to your father NOW. He really needs to know that she has these thoughts. He has to be very careful of his actions toward her and around her! Good luck. I hope all works out well!