Should I still be in love with my ex?! PLEASE HELP! :(?
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Should I still be in love with my ex?! PLEASE HELP! :(?
Ok, so this guy i really really liked, who was also my best friend, asked me out last year. i said yes, of course. we dated for almost 2 months, and i fell for him really hard. he dumped me via text message to date his best friend's ex ff. (it sounds bad, Ike) i tried really really hard to get over him, but i just couldn't. it's now 7 months later, and i still love him deeply. i sometimes catch him looking at me and smiling at school, and i sit next to him in 1st hour (assigned seating, BTW) so we sometimes look at each other. It's kind of awkward sometimes, but i can't help to think he might be falling for me again. The only flaw to him is that he's rich. i didn't know that until about a month after we started dating, and i really wish he wasn't. i know that sounds stupid, but i don't want his money, i just want him. What do you guys think? Should i still love him, do you think he's falling for me again, and do you think our love ever ended? please help
talk to him. no one ever said that you cant be friends with someone you used to date. its hard to figure out if there is some sort of "deep connection" if you dint even talk. eye glances, and sitting next to one another (but not talking) is awkward in any situation, even if you didn't used to date.
so talk to him, and the see
Honestly, take my advice to heart, move on! Its hard OT get over someone especially when you are forced to see them everyday. He broke up without through a text message! How lame can he be? Dont be his sucker twice. Find someone else to spend time with, once you do that, it will get easier and you will be able OT let him go. Dont let him smiling at you be an indicated hes still interested because that's not a sure fire sign my dear. The only way to truly know is for him to open his mouth and say it and who knows if you get back together, will he just dump you for the next girl his friend happens to dump? Be strong, care about someone worth caring for
Of course it's natural to still like your ex for a while but think about it if he dumped you by text to date his best friends ex then he didn't deserve you and it seems like he wasn't a nice person anyway if he did it by text for his best friends ex.
Omgosh, Im kinda going through the same thing.. so many people are going to tell you to move on forget about him.. but i think you should wait for him, like i am..its going to be hard as hell. and we are going to hurt..but i think since we both did nothing wrong things might go our way and they will come back to us! Goodluck Hun, i think its going to be OK
Reality is that he dumped you to be with someone else!
Why waste your time wondering if he is falling for you......instead you should remind yourself that he's the one who lost a good thing! Let's him fall hard just like broke your heart.
If he's not your boyfriend anymore,just pretend like you don't like him.Trust me,I've been crushed.So this is what I did:
I wouldn't look at my ex
I wouldn't talk to my ex
I would talk about him with my friends
I wouldn't send him texts
I wouldn't do anything involving him
Since he's not your boyfriend anymore,you should act like your being mature and a big-girl.If you are a big-girl,you should pretend like your over him.Trust me,I stare at my Rx's old pictures on face book.For about 15 minutes!Haha,it's okay to still have feelings for him,just leave him a sign saying "I understand we are done,so let's not do anything what couples do and move on with our lives".Hope this helps--A LOT!!
i was in the exact situation as you b4 Hun .. i was with my ex 2 years & we broke up for about 8 months .. we hated each other until we just bumped into each other in town & said hey to each other. he text ed me the next day asking me to meet up for a chat. about 3 weeks later we got back together for another 5 months or so. i still loved him through them months we were apart & it was stronger when we got back together!.. I'd say you should give him a text or FBI him.. meet up & talk .. .. and see where it goes from there...dint expect too much at the start & do NOT get your hopes up on the first time if Ur meeting him on your own. if he asks you to meet up again or whatever, He's obviously still interested!...if you never try you'll never know.. x
He sounds lake a dirt bag. We all go through tough times and still have feelings its normal but do not get back together with him unless he has changed because he will do it again. Talk to him and if he is still acting weird move on plenty of men out there. I was in a similar situation where a guy I liked liked me bu it liked another person as well. So when we dated he dumped me for another girl but realized he wanted me and dumped her. I made him wait a while but I gave in and we were together before other problems arose. Just follow your heart and give it time. You will know which way to go.
Being friends with an ex is hard but if you think the person is worth it, you can work towards it together. Remember that situations are only awkward if you make them awkward. Talk to him and tell him how you feel.
Alright -- so the deal with relationship's is sometimes things happen!
He might have fallen for the other girl; but sometimes that's just a way to cover up his true feelings toward you! I know; cause i kept dumping my boyfriend only to realize I was just hiding my fear of love. Also, loving your ex is nothing to be ashamed of. If you think he still loves you then make a move, but if not just let him be and let HIM come to YOU. And as I hear it he's just being friendly; not to get your hopes down. He may still love you, but its sort of hard to tell without knowing him. Try not to take his "1st period glances" to heart, but like I said before it may just be him hiding his feelings. Just try and be chill; I'm with you every step of the way; and I wish the best for both of you!
It's totally apparent that you're obsessed with this guy. And if I know that... then he TOTALLY knows it! And that translates into you being completely wrapped around his finger. You are no longer a challenge to him! Sounds like you would drop everything right now to be with him. You need to do the exact opposite. If you really want him to take you back (which i wouldn't suggest) you need to open up your options a bit more. Start hanging out/flirting with more guys. AND make sure he knows about it. When he starts initiating contact with you again, tease him a bit, tell him you're busy, play hot n cold, etc.
Good luck. In the meantime keep your options open.
you Winna play with fire and hope to not get burnt ?@? he,ll hurt you by dumping you yet again ! and please dint approach him Cox if he rejects you , you,ll feel twice as worse as you felt before !
Ohgoshh. . .
Please, get over him before it's too late (: What he did to you was wrong, he sounds like he never really appreciated you, I know, it sucks being in love with someone when they don't feel the same, I honestly know, -- WAIT A SECOND.
Okay, so I'm totally going to contradict what I'm saying but I just had an epiphany!
Youu don;t want to be sitting around two years later wondering what COULD have happened, take a chance (: You never know where it could lead (: Ask him straight up
Good luck ;D
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what the hell? why would u want some guy who dumped u after 2 months for his best friends ex, that right there let's u know the type of person he is. forget his riches, him and move on OK.
There is nothing that will get him sitting up noticing you again like you getting on WITHOUT him ! Smile, be happy, go shopping, be confident, outwardly appear that you don't need him even if on the inside you want to cry buckets. Dont site next to him, sit somewhere else with a friend and smile, don't look sad, and don't' look at him. You don't have to date anyone else, but you must show him that you are moving on. There is nothing more attractive to a guy than a confident girl, and my guess is he'll then wonder why the hell he ever let you go. Just remember, when he comes running back, to tell him to keep running. You are worth far more than he has given you, and not even the courtesy of a proper break up, just on text, how chicken is that ?! OK everyone makes mistakes, and my guess is hes just made one of the biggest he'll ever make, but maybe he thinks being rich means he can treat people badly, well you don't care for his money (which its not his, its his family, did he earn it??) and frankly you shouldn't care for anyone if they cant respect you. If he changes and demonstrates better behavior towards you, then it is up to you if you give him another chance, but my guess is, the new confident happy smiling you will have found someone else ! good luck.
Should I still be in love with my ex?! PLEASE HELP! :(?
.. and see where it goes from there...dint expect too much at the start & do NOT get your hopes up on the first time if Ur meeting him on your own. if he asks you to meet up again or whatever, He's obviously still interested!...if you never try you'll never know.. 
