I have two loves.... help me?

Matador · #1 (**permalink**) 07-23-2010, 02:35 PM

I've been in love with J for three years but he just used me.. a hit and quit.. and I started Daren B this last year and he's SO Now J has been Acton interested and I kinda cheated on B with him... J was my first! I love him! I love B too, just differently. But B does everything he can for me he's the best boyfriend ever. But me and J just have history I can't get over. What do I do??

prettymomofthree2004 · #2 (**permalink**) 07-26-2010, 02:35 PM

Justin Berber

♣ · #3 (**permalink**) 07-29-2010, 02:35 PM

Go with the second, because if you TRULY LOVEEEEDD the first you wouldn't of fallen in love with the second one

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julia l · #4 (**permalink**) 08-01-2010, 02:35 PM

move on, go B with B.

helkat922 · #5 (**permalink**) 08-06-2010, 02:35 PM

flip a coin

Bella Amore · #6 (**permalink**) 08-08-2010, 02:35 PM

if you like B and he is nice and likes you back pick him

bratty brat · #7 (**permalink**) 08-12-2010, 02:35 PM

you have to chose one and stick with him

goofy1804 · #8 (**permalink**) 08-14-2010, 02:35 PM

Haha... B and J....
Anyways, immaturity aside, I think you should go with whoever your heart chooses. (Lame, right)
Well, my best friend had to choose between two guys. She couldn't make the decision, so I had her answer a few questions:
Who makes you laugh the most?
Who makes you smile more?
Who do you think of first when you wake up?
And who gives you more butterflies in your tummy?
It worked for her, it worked for me, and hopefully it works for you.

cutehrgrl · #9 (**permalink**) 08-18-2010, 02:35 PM

You have to follow your heart. Your first love is always going to be important and part of your life but if you cant trust someone its hard to be with them. It sounds like J wants you back but he don't sound a very nice person to cheat on you and sounds like B really cares about you.Think very carefully before going back to J. Good luck !!

Girlll. · #10 (**permalink**) 08-21-2010, 02:35 PM

Map out things you like about each of them and choose one that has more likable qualities

Vero · #11 (**permalink**) 08-23-2010, 02:35 PM

I'd go with B. He didn't cheat, leave you or anything. He's always there- it's kind of obvious.

sex is good · #12 (**permalink**) 08-27-2010, 02:35 PM

well, first off you need to tell B that you cheated on him, because he deserves to know. after that, he might dump you. in which case you can have your mind made up for you and just go out with J.
but personally, J doesn't sound like an option to me anyway, he seems like a scumbag and you're probably better off without him and should have just been loyal to B in the first place. but you cheated so now you need to take responsibility for that, do the right thing and just tell him what happened. if you were cheated on you would want to know too.
so in a nutshell: forget about j, hes bad news. tell b you cheated. if he doesn't dump you, then treasure him and dint cheat on him again. if B does dump you, just be single till a good guy comes along.

norwood · #13 (**permalink**) 08-29-2010, 02:35 PM

First, I think Jerome would be the best name for J, and I will name B Buford. Now Buford is a sweet guy. Just how sweet is Buford? You could potentially get a threesome out of this one if you play it right. Now here is what you do. Talk to sweet Buford and see what he thinks about having a threesome. Most guys will be down for it with two chicks, but you gotta have a really sweet guy to go 2 guys 1 girl. If he agrees then this is your opportunity and then you don't have to tell Buford you cheated on him and whoever pleases you more in your threesome is who you should choose.