Yes, my advice would be not to go. Why do you want to torture yourself being around someone that you still love, that you can't have? I think you will be really uncomfortable and make it even harder to get over her and get on with your own life. Me telling you this will obviously not prevent you from going so I guess I should just answer what you want to hear. First of all I would keep it simple. Don't talk about the past, or what might have been, etc. Talk in the present. Talk about what she has been up to, what is new in your life. Jobs, common friends that you might have, family, etc. Treat her like you would any of your friends, not like you did when she was your girlfriend. And whatever you do, don't hug her or kiss her goodbye. Just remember keeping it simple is the best thing for you. Good luck
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