He loves me...he loves me not? advice please?

~*~i!*BoOK woRm*!i~*~ · #1 (**permalink**) 12-17-2008, 02:03 PM

okay so I went out with this guy last summer for almost two months and then we broke up. I wanted him back so I tried all school year but he was nothing but a jerk to me and he flirted with and dated several girls. Well this summer he text ed me and we started talking again. He broke up with his ff and we started going out again. All of my friends say he's just playing me but I dint want to believe it. He gets mad at me because I don't completely trust him. Well he wants my trust but I see him commenting on this girls pictures saying niece

and he promises to text her when his phone works and they are best friends, but I'm worried about it. I don't want to lose him again because I really do love him but how can I make sure he feels the same back and isn't wanting to go out with other girls and his flirting is innocent? advice needed pleaseEEEOe

mocha5isfree · #2 (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 02:03 PM

i think he don't know what he wants yet.

eileen g · #3 (**permalink**) 12-22-2008, 02:03 PM

NOT. You seem to be the rebound girl in this situation.

Kathryn · #4 (**permalink**) 12-26-2008, 02:03 PM

Just be straight forward with him...Say i don't wanna be hurt, i really do love you and i want to make sure you feel the same way back.

fortitudinousskeptic · #5 (**permalink**) 12-29-2008, 02:03 PM

talk about it with him...and confront him bout how u feel and why

kikime · #6 (**permalink**) 01-02-2009, 02:03 PM

He's such a jerk and not nice to u....pals find yourself a good guy!

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Aliissa Garcia · #7 (**permalink**) 01-06-2009, 02:03 PM

i had the same problem
he problem do sent know what he wants yet but most lads are like this
just be care full and dint let him hurt you

evilmorbius · #8 (**permalink**) 01-07-2009, 02:03 PM

Some guys are `born` flirts and players (as are some girls). And mostly they never change.
If a girl loves a guy like this, and all he does is flirt with others, but basically stays loyal to her....it is OK if she can tolerate it.

It`s when you suspect they are playing away, you should get worried.

lplove775 · #9 (**permalink**) 01-09-2009, 02:03 PM

obviously not he's just horny.

Reece · #10 (**permalink**) 01-10-2009, 02:03 PM

Girl i know what this is like Ive been there just end it with this guy no matter how much it hurts you Ive done the same but i got passed it. this guy is just using you as a rebound maybe because he thinks you ll say yeah if he asks you to go out with him.

Lynsey C · #11 (**permalink**) 01-15-2009, 02:03 PM

He is a player. You should never have gotten together with him again. Why would you want to be with someone who broke up with you and then was a jerk to you for the whole school year? If you don't trust him, there is a reason for it. If he is talking to other girls like that, then he is not commit ed to being with just you. I know you might feel like you don't want to lose him again, but if you let him go, you won't be losing anything. You will be doing yourself a favor. Tell him to take a hike and go be with one of those girls. You should not have to put yourself through torture trying to figure out what his feelings are. I'm pretty sure he doesn't even know what his own feelings are for you or anyone else. If you break up with him, it will be his loss and then you can find someone who is better for you and won't be a jerk to you and cheat on you or talk to other girls. No girl deserves that.

JimmyDWang AKA Don Meaty · #12 (**permalink**) 01-20-2009, 02:03 PM

for a guy getting laid is 'cool' so that's all hes probably trying to do with you. your just the next available girl...

(not me though I'm very different)

Sulayman · #13 (**permalink**) 01-22-2009, 02:03 PM

The thing is he yes, he is playing you sorry Hun if you meant that much he wouldn't be flirting with all this other girls, like or not you have to accept that.

I would stop playing hard to get, flirt with other boys, and see how he reacts he might be flirting with girls to get you jealous. If he reacts when your with other boys, then he probably feels something, if not its time to find someone who doesn't treat you like a complete doormat.

if he reacts when your with others e..g commenting on boys photos, flirting with, say you love him but if you wanna go out and have a proper relationship then he has to stop flirting with these girls.

if your meant to be, then you will be.

BTW, just to remind you there are SO MANY more boys out there......