What advice would you give to a single young men in his late 20s still looking for love?

~BeautifulAnGeL~ · #1 (**permalink**) 05-20-2010, 03:45 PM

I am a 28 year old man that hasn't had much success in love or dating for that matter. It seems like other people I know are having success with dating but I am still in the same place that I was in 5 years ago not really dating or anything. I am a really shy guy that usually waits for signs and other things but it seems like as I get older it is getting harder and hard to find even someone I could date. I am not saying I am looking to get married which I would one day, but I would like to just date because I feel like what I am doing currently is unhealthy.

the_ron · #2 (**permalink**) 05-21-2010, 03:45 PM

Stay true to your self. Don't change for any girl. It's not you, you just need to open up more. Don't be afraid. Just be patient and you'll find that perfect girl!

Vera Wang Jr. · #3 (**permalink**) 05-23-2010, 03:45 PM

All I can say is good luck to you. About all you can find nowadays are people who thinks commitment ends when they leave your company. From experiences in my own life and looking at Yahoo answers not too many people know what love or fidelity means.

Joey Starr · #4 (**permalink**) 05-28-2010, 03:45 PM

Hi Shy, I was like you. But I started pushing myself to talk to people and making small conversations with men and women. Like at the checkout line in the store. You have to get out and meet people at a coffee shop or library. As you build your confidence talking to anyone it will make it easier to ask a woman out or even talk to a woman. If you push yourself you will find out that people are just like you and most people may want the same things you do. Their is a world full of woman waiting for a nice guy to ask them out. Most women your age have had a few boyfriends and "jerks" and want to date a nice guy. Being confident will get you a long way. Good luck and your new name should be "Mr.Confident".