please help; love advice?

isin50 · #1 (**permalink**) 06-04-2010, 03:58 PM

i find it ironic how I'm always attracted to family men. they want to be a daddy one day. <3 but i suck at the dating game and haven't been able to hold a serious, romantic relationship with any of them... any advice on how i can keep a guy like this?? thanks in advance!!

Brittani S · #2 (**permalink**) 06-08-2010, 03:58 PM

Just be yourself! You obviously have a lot in common with them already if your so attracted to them :] be yourself. It always works

hybodus · #3 (**permalink**) 06-13-2010, 03:58 PM

don't let them know you're thinking about them having kids at an early stage of your relationship. it will most likely freak them out a bit. its better to say that you admire the quality in them that they're good with children. keep "family" talk out of conversation until you're about ready to have one.

I am the DUDE OF LIFE · #4 (**permalink**) 06-14-2010, 03:58 PM

Well to start with i found out researching, that if you go for one type of guy it is because somewhere inside yourself that is what you want too. And This does not have to be a bad thing Because as you spend time together, you Matt want to start a family, and if they want children then they will be a good father. And it really isn't a game. It is a relationship, if it doesn't work out it wasn't meant to be mostly likely because of compatibility or others good reasons. It could also be because you, maybe you need to have more of a open mind to changes.

P.S hope this helps,, please reply.(:

carla o · #5 (**permalink**) 06-16-2010, 03:58 PM

Hi, This is Vince here and I read that you have problem with dating.
Honestly, i also like you, and have some problem with my way of speaking to girls.
But one of my friend, Jason, tell me that he knows how to remove my bad behavior when speak with girls, which is SELF-COnfidence!
So, my tips is when you talk with girls, show you are self-confidence with yourself.

I hope my tips is good for you.