I have my first crush I love her so much I really like I don't know if it's mutual? What should I do? Advice?

Fluzzy · #1 (**permalink**) 04-19-2010, 04:30 PM

We went to grammar school together and were friends but never hung out outside of school. I have liked her for 3 years and we now go to different high schools. We still text occasionally, but it is just the friendly stuff like hey what's up NM u bbl. O did u win..THAT Kinda talk nothing too deep. I always text first though, she has text ed me twice, 1) was a follow after I saw her in person.. We were talking about how we miss each other and I said u looked beautiful today and she replied "Hahah thanks (my name) SO did u!" 2) was she asked me if I was going to this event at her school. Whenever I text her she usually asks when we are going to hang out or she wants to hang out and I say soon miss u I want to too. I have only seen her 2x since we graduated in may 2010. I saw her a few weeks ago and she got up.. But I didn't hug her her

did I mess up? Now given the circumstances I have a few questions:
Does she like me?
Should I pursue the hanging out, if so, how?
>>>>>what are some good places to just hang? Is it weird to invite her to my house, we are in high school?
>>>>> given that we are still at the friend stage should I have other friends there?
How can I tell her I like her?
How can I get her to text first?
Would it be weird if I just called her randomly to talk? If not, what are good topics to talk about?
How can I make our testing conversations deeper? And less dead? Without being annoying?
How often is too often to text her given the fact that I don't see her in person therefore talk to her in person, at what point does the texting get annoying?
I have never had a GF BEFORE but I'm in highschool I'd greatly appreciate any tips or other ***ADVICE***

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blackolivesrule · #2 (**permalink**) 04-24-2010, 04:30 PM

Man up and do what you want

aaaa · #3 (**permalink**) 04-27-2010, 04:30 PM

it is mutual, tell her you like her

answer my question?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110213072952AACyYqU

menina0908 · #4 (**permalink**) 05-01-2010, 04:30 PM

Make a move already! Text her some funny jokes, then say u like her and see how things lead on...
How about u put "from Ur valentine" at the end too?

Nitty · #5 (**permalink**) 05-05-2010, 04:30 PM

Well, i cant tell if she likes you from that, but your best bet is to see her again

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okay so no, it is not weird to invite her to your house. You could go bowling, that is always fun, or to the park.
See her a few more times, and then just let the conversation flow and say i really like you. the worst thing that can happen is she says no, and then you move on

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If you text her a lot, she will text you first if she does feel something.
NO, call her to talk randomly, that is very nice!

. just talk about school, life etc!
Rather try to have deep conversations over the phone / IN person rate hr than over TeX messages, but if you must, just bring up something, like your parents divorce or something, and let it flow.
Just text her as much as her replies are interesting, if she seems bored, carry on another time.

any more advice: I'm also in high school, never had a boyfriend, but if it doesn't work, dint stress, we have lots of time

hope this helped

Icanhazcheezburger? · #6 (**permalink**) 05-07-2010, 04:30 PM

start testing her once a week then 3 times for a while then eventually 5 or everyday don't make her text you first because girls don't really like to do that then actually plan to go somewhere with her like the movies because it's not awkward then see how it goes if she wants to hang out and she's not making plans it means she wants you to

Elyse · #7 (**permalink**) 05-09-2010, 04:30 PM

if you like her that much, ASK HER OUT! tell her everything you feel and i bet she feels the same way (: plan something for you guys to meet up somewhere, ask her out! you have to show how much you care for her <3

interpolated_panda · #8 (**permalink**) 05-13-2010, 04:30 PM

It's all ways the same answer ask her questions!
anything from
> What's your favorite co lour?
to
> Do like any one?
***All ways Smile!***
Invite her to places talk to her all the time just because she doesn't text you first doesn't mean she doesn't want to!
Great places to hang are shopping centers, parks, malls, Ice cream stores, So many places
If your going to the mall, movies, or ice cream stores Just you two
but if your going to your house Invite more people over have a little party or something invite mutual friends between you and her.
Make her feel comfortable at all times
***DON'T CHANGE TOO MUCH!*** (if she all ready likes you Th way you are don't change too much)

It looks like she does like you, she's just waiting for you to make the first move!

Hope I helped!
-Jjpop