I NEED HELP i feel in love with this doctor he is marred and i just cant get him out o my system?

sounds like you have a combination of hormones and transference which means that you have feelings for a nice Dr. that has done you some good. This happens all the time in the Dr world as well as the psychology field.

Just leave it please don't break those people marriage if you really love and care about that doctor leave him alone, think about his wife and 3 kids and how much he would regret if they divorce.

Please don't go through with this.
I guess you are not married, but please consider that one day when you get married, your worst fear will be your husband cheating on you. For all you know, that b^Ch Karma will knocking on your door and realize your worst nightmare.

If he is flirting with you, please start ignoring him.
There is clearly something wrong with him to pursue you like this, and whatever problems him and his wife might have, you are being caught in the middle of it all, and you will come out to be the loser.

If you go through with this, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
I can tell in your question that you have a conscience. Guess what? Conscience will haunt you till it breaks you down because you will feel horrible for what you did.

Tell him off.
What you are feeling is infatuation, if you go through with the affair, a month from now, you will feel horrible and dirty. Don't let this man use you for whatever.
You need to know that you can actually get a man who is single and will only want you, and not run to his wife like some coward.

Good luck and I really hope you make the right decision.

;If your doctor is asking you questions, he is way out of line and should be reported to the authorities. As for you, you need to stay completely away from him because he's married. He belongs to someone else. If he's willing to cheat on his wife, you don't want him. He would also cheat on you. He is a scumbag. RUN.RUN! Run!!!

TRUST ME, I have just been in the same situation (except he was no doctor ha) and I pursued it and got manipulate, lied to and about and got my heart broken hurt alto of friends and all my family. It's so difficult when you want something you cannot have but think about the long run, and how this will affect those you love, his family and YOURSELF, it rips you apart. Please do not do it! Run a mile girl and stay away from men with rings around their fingers, it will only cause you intense pain and a hell of alto of trouble!! Take my word for it, don't go there!

If he will cheat WITH you, he'll cheat ON you eventually. But that's no more than home wrecking skunks like you deserve.

oh for goodness sake grow up.

he and you are risking everything, even at this stage he has overstepped the boundaries of patient doctor relationships and runs the risk of being disbarred apart from anything else.

as to your addition details - you can't cause him to divorce that is up to him and i doubt that will happen because he is just a sleaze and should know better if he is any sort of a decent doctor.

the reason, adultery.

if this is true you need to change doctors before you both get into trouble.