I need advice on middle school love?

L's Boobie · #1 (**permalink**) 01-29-2009, 03:35 PM

When i was in 6Th grade i met this boy named Walker wright. we were friends for most of the year. He loved me and i loved him, but he was too shy to ask me out. Finally in April he asked me out and i said yes. We went out for 6 months. I broke up with him in 7Th grade because he SW too shy and still acted like we were friends. Then a new boy named Nick (nick) moved to my school. We were close friends. Everyone says we love each other. I think i might love him but I'm not sure if he likes me back. Walker and I are still friends and we were talking with us, Nick, and other friends. Walker said he never stopped loving me and i think i might still love him. Nik didn't say much we Walker was talking about that. I'm waiting for Walker to ask me out, but Nik won't admit to anyone so i don't think he'll ask me. Who do I really love? Who do y'all think will ask me out? Do you think Nik loves me?

terrestrial · #2 (**permalink**) 01-30-2009, 03:35 PM

Lol middle school love.. they never last

Bhaswat B · #3 (**permalink**) 01-31-2009, 03:35 PM

no such thing as love in middle school trust me its a lot more complicating than that

Polly · #4 (**permalink**) 02-01-2009, 03:35 PM

HM Ive been through this I'm in high school though and I'm 16 ha ha but anyways i think both of them love you just choose the one that is not so shy and let them know that the guy is the one that has to do everything first and if they really love you like they say they do then tell them to prove it (: by the time you are in high school you will regret this(: ha ha trust me

Winter Glory · #5 (**permalink**) 02-05-2009, 03:35 PM

You need time to really think about this. Do you want to give Walker another chance? Since your sure he loves you and you think you love him, personally i think he's your best option. This Nik...well if he's not giving you any love signals, maybe you should just forget it. You and walker have history to build another relationship on and it might be better this time round. I really dint think Nik is interested. You dint wanna regret losing Walker in the future if you just go for Nik.

omarigirl91 · #6 (**permalink**) 02-08-2009, 03:35 PM

Your guys are f***Inga in 7Th grade your 12/13!!You don't know what love is and besides you can't love someone who you don't date god...

music lover · #7 (**permalink**) 02-13-2009, 03:35 PM

I am 13 right now but i have a lot of experience with middle school love. my friends are all dating other guys. in middle school you are just starting to experiment with the dating world. you cant call the relationships love but they are crushes and likes. It is very important that adults take these things seriously because if they dint the person involved can get there feelings seriously hurt. Now i would suggest asking one of you friends to try and help you find out who walker and Nik like if walker likes you i would suggest monitoring your thoughts and i you think about walker in a romantic light that means you still may have a crush on him. simple questions to ask yourself before you date somebody.
1. is it a pity date. are you dating this person just because you feel sorry for them if you answer yes do not date them. it will hurt there feelings more and also it will ruin your relationship as friends.
2. do you feel happy when you are around them? when they talk do you tune out everything else and listen only to them?
3. do you dream about them? if you answer yes to this question what kind of dreams do you dream about them and if it has something to do with you just being friends the think on that.
4. remind yourself that you could just like and love them as a little brother or a big brother.
5. you may not even be interested in boys. truthfully in middle school you are to young to tell.

Hope this helps.
- A